Wait until the end of the holiday,
my housemate made that mistake, she said no and he had to spend another week with her where all she wanted to do was talk about it.
(PsychoChomp, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 15:49, 3 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

christ

( Lisette von Falcon, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 15:51, Reply)

Yeah, I can't imagine it was good fun.

(PsychoChomp, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 15:54, Reply)

If the opportunity were to ever arise, I'd like to be asked, to be surprised.
And not talked to about it.
None of my friends have had that, it's all been "we talked about it and decided we wanted to get married" or they got knocked up and had a shot gun wedding
( Lisette von Falcon, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 15:58, Reply)

Ooooh, I though he was talking about anal as per Kristine's post
this now makes much more sense. Good luck!
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:00, Reply)

I can imagine that would've been confusing for you

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:01, Reply)

Yeah, ignore the post further down about talking and wanking

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:02, Reply)

I did think that a little odd
but not all that surprising, even talking about proposals
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:16, Reply)

Unless one led to the other...
"Well, he asked, and I must have looked really disgusted, because in the awkward silence that followed, he panicked and asked me to marry him...I just wish I hadn't been stark naked and on all fours at the time."
(LongJohnBaldry, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:19, Reply)

This is Vipros we're talking about.
She won't say no.
( girlinthehole, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 15:51, Reply)

There's always the possibility, you can't assume they're going to say yes.

(PsychoChomp, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 15:55, Reply)

hmmm
it's an interesting point

I'm certain she won't say no, given that our enormous joint mortgage is more of a commitment, but timing is worth considering.

I was thinking I'd do it near the beginning, then I could reap the benefits for the rest of the holiday.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 15:59, Reply)

I thought this about our mortagage
turns out that this is not the way girls look at things. Do it early in the holiday, almost everyone I know taht has got engaged has argued with their girlfriend before hand as they as uptight and twitchy so just do it and reap the rewards!
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:02, Reply)

I know my gf does look at it like that fortunately
the worst part of this whole thing is that I have yet to phone her old man and do the shit traditional bit
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:10, Reply)

Well, good luck

( Lisette von Falcon, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:09, Reply)

thanks :-)

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:10, Reply)

You've misspelled 'rape' there.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:50, Reply)

apologies

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 16:51, Reply)

Could he jack off to her talking about it?
Or was it not that kind of talk?
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Wed 14 Apr 2010, 15:55, Reply)