But his head wasn't in the right place
So how did he know how he was going to feel on the other side?
He shouldn't have made a promise like that, because things change and people change and feelings change.
But come on, nobody does that on purpose. And if he DID lie on purpose, why the hell are you still bothered that some other stupid bitch has got herself saddled to him.
Either he's a nice bloke who was screwed up and not capable of making promises, so give him a break. Or he was a lying bastard from the start, so why are you wishing you were the poor engaged cow who's got him now?
Either way Blousie, I'd say you were better off right now..
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 10 May 2010, 8:51, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

Well I know for a fact he can lie to me.
Still all of what you said doesn't make me feel any better. As your well aware I am not a person that get's attention from the opposite sex very often.
( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:01, Reply)

Well believe me,
getting lots of the wrong attention is no better than getting scant attention.
If he's a liar, then you don't need him. I'm glad he's engaged. It means you're safe from him for the time being.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:04, Reply)

I'm just fucked off that I'm back where I was a year ago.
Sitting at work crying my eyes out and all the self esteem I'd crawled back is gone again.
( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:10, Reply)

It's ok to feel bad
Just don't let your self esteem go away. You are the most important person right now, and you know you are good.

He's taken enough from you, don't let him hurt you more.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Mon 10 May 2010, 9:18, Reply)

As I said before
I think the only reason why you don't get more attention is because you really think you are not good enough.

Believe me, a bit of self esteem works miracles with these things. I've gone through that. Years and years of believing I'd never get a bf because there was something wrong with me. As soon as I started to get positive and brave, things went much better.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Mon 10 May 2010, 9:09, Reply)