also out of interest
a question for male b3tans. At what point does someone become a slut? How many people?
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:23, 4 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

it very much depends on circumstances I would suggest
sluttiness is more about how you dress and act, and as such I don't think anyone here qualifies from what I know about them.

as I said, it wasn't the appropriate word.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:26, Reply)

fair enough
I just find it odd that men are so aware of who has been before them, but don't think that standard applies to themselves. Not directed at you Vipros, just in general.

I think you're right- sluttiness if used at all is more about clothes and attitude. But there are two conflicting signals. On the one hand, men want women to be free and easy about sex- unconflicted and unihibited, and on the other hand they only ever want them to be like that with them.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:29, Reply)

I get where you are coming from
but it's not something that I consider really. I don't know how many people my mrs has been with other than it being a few more than my meagre score, nor do I care as what we have is awesome.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:46, Reply)

which is really nice
I've never asked a partner how many people they've slept with. And if they asked me I'd be reluctant to tell them because I wouldn't think it was any of their business. Plus (like you claim) mine is a ridiculously low number due to relative unattractiveness/ tendency to long relationships)
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:53, Reply)

it has bothered me in the past a little (not in this relationship)
but I think that was more down to my own mild insecurity than anything else.

Fortunately that's not so much of an issue these days as I have my hands full restraining my massive smugness and ego.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:55, Reply)

yeah
and you need both hands for that :D
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:59, Reply)

too fucking right

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:59, Reply)

I don't mind talking about it, but then again I have slept with over a thousand woman
Unfortunately only around 7/8ths were models
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 18:04, Reply)

7/8th scale models?

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 19:16, Reply)

It's nothing to do with numbers for me
A slut is someone who sleeps with people in order to hurt others. For example, a guy sleeps with another girl to get back at his girlfriend for saying she thought celebrity X was fit, or a girl who shags a guy in order to piss off another girl who fancies this guy.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:27, Reply)

No one from here, in my mind, is a slut.... well, none of the women, anyway.
I reckon a slut is someone who sleeps with people behind other people's backs, like when they're in a relationship or something. If you're single, and the other person is single, and even the third person is single, then it's all fair game.

The biggest slut I can think of is Katie Price, I fucking hate the vile piece of work.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:33, Reply)

I agree with you Gonz
(and Lab for that matter) being a slut is about hurting others. (a) I don't think Lampito's slept with enough people to qualify for the term of slut even in the horrible way, and (b) I really doubt she has ever slept with someone to hurt them.

And yes Vipros I know it was just the wrong word used :) but it never hurts to have an interesting discussion
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:38, Reply)

interesting
not given it too much thought previously other than some nebulous thoughts that it's to do with dress and attitude. The hurting people part is not something I would've put under the slut label, but can see why you would, and hence why you would consider it a nastier term then I.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:49, Reply)

Slut isn't made from numbers.
It's made from attitude.
(porkylips looks better as the sun goes down., Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:50, Reply)