Cool, and what's the rules about paying for it afterwards?
It wouldn't be fair to take over and expect him to still pay his share, but it's not fair that I pay the full price and don't get to choose things where the ball is set in motion. Sure, simple things like the song for the first dance is an easy one to change, but surely I should be able to pick what we have for the meal and all that if I'm putting..... oh', wait, it's the parents of the bride that pays, isn't it? Oh, fair enough, don't worry about that one.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 22 Jun 2010, 10:33, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

Nah, these days it's the couple that pays.
I suggest you quit uni, get a job and consolidate all your debts into one easy monthly affordable payment plan.
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 22 Jun 2010, 10:40, Reply)