I've heard that a lot of women say that
to men they don't want to have sex with.
( ascorbate, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 13:51, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

I would imagine choice of position to be a bit limited

(Bazongaloid, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 13:53, Reply)

not a limited as chances once sprog arrives and screams constantly the minute you put him down somewhere

( ascorbate, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 13:55, Reply)

I'm so glad my mrs agrees that we aren't having kids

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 13:56, Reply)

She'll change her mind

(Bazongaloid, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:02, Reply)

I agree with this, hormones will get her, they always do!

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:06, Reply)

I might as well
I fucking doubt it though

if anything seeing her sister and husband, and my brother and wife having kids has put her off more.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:06, Reply)

I used to hate kids then my cousin had two
and they're bad, whiney, screaming little twats.
But they are sweet and kind and loving.
And amazing.

edit: sorry, I guess my point is that you know your kids will be different
( Lisette von Falcon, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:21, Reply)

I'm familiar with all the arguments
but the fact is I'm a horrible impatient bastard.

people often tell me I'd be a good dad. to me this just means they don't know me well at all.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:30, Reply)

But when you actually have kids
you'll be surprised. When I was an au pair I actually found it really good fun.
(Bazongaloid, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:31, Reply)

I wouldn't want to have kids on the basis that I might be surprised at how well I deal with it
on a more practical note, even if we were to have them, we couldn't afford them any time soon. My mortgage is fucking enormous and I don't have enough cash for my liking anyway.

I'd rather not have them than bring them into a household where we can't afford to do anything because of them. That's a shitty recipe for resentment.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:50, Reply)

I don't want kids for the same reasons my dad didn't.
Whoops.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:34, Reply)

It involves sex with a northern woman?

(Bazongaloid, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:35, Reply)

My mum's not Northern, neither is my dad.

( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:38, Reply)

But they had sex in the north?

(Bazongaloid, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:40, Reply)

Yeah, but only with me
Think my sister was born in Frimley
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:41, Reply)

your parents had sex with you in the North?
those filthy fucking swine!
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:47, Reply)

Yeah
Incest is Wincest.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:50, Reply)

I will pass that on to some of my Somerset friends
they will be pleased to have something they can say. if they can get their cleft palates around the syllables.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 15:02, Reply)