Cafe girl deffo, I might go "I got some spare tickets to the theater, do you fancy it?".
But It'll lead onto a "When are the tickets for? I'm free/not free on that date" and I'll sheepeshly say "Any time you're free, ever, it doesn't matter".
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:10, 3 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

Just go for it!
Worst case scenario - she says no

EDIT:
Or kills you with serving tongs

EDITEDIT:
Glad you liked the Halloumi with sweet chilli sauce!
( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:11, Reply)

=D
I think I will, maybe for when I go to lunch there next, which I think I will tomorow.

The Halluoumi worked really well, I did it with a pasta sauce instead, as I had some left over, but I added some chilli to it to make it into a kindda aberetta.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:13, Reply)

Do it!
That, and more griddled cheese with chilli!
( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:15, Reply)

I got tickets for the theatre for tonight
But I can't go, so I'm thinking on changing the date. Would you like to come with me? When?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:13, Reply)

0o0o0o, nice one.

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:14, Reply)

Thanks
I'm great at inventing excuses to meet with future exes.

Another one is: I won these tickets but my friends are not interested; I have to tell them when I can go, would you want to come with me? when?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:17, Reply)

I like that one too =)
You wouldn't consider it a 'cheap date', if he 'won' the tickets though, would you?
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:26, Reply)

No, I'd be very happy
that he's thought of me.

You can say too that you and your friend got the tickets, you can't make it tonight so he's going on his own. You'd be happy if she goes with you another day and you'd invite her to it. When would she do it? It has to be this week.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:28, Reply)

Sweet, thanks =)

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:34, Reply)

Just say
"would you like to go out with me sometime?"

That way you get to find out what she'd like to do and when she's free after she's said yes.
( Kroney, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:13, Reply)

My mate taught me this, always give some sort of end-date, such as 'next week'.
It forces them to give a definative awnser.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:15, Reply)

Well, if you're into forcing them into definitives
just cut out the middle man and give her a raping.
( Kroney, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:16, Reply)

Heh, no, not like that.
But I find, most of the time, I would say something like "Do you fancy [doing something] some time?" and she'll say "Yeah', that sounds good, I'm busy at the moment will let you know", and it'll never happen. Where as if you set a timeframe, if it's 'no', it's 'no', and you can deal with it, or "I'm going on holiday, I'll be back and maybe then", but end up waiting forever and in the mean time you don't move on.

If you say "Next week", then it's more definative.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:24, Reply)