The girl who works at a cafe I've been going to recently.
She's one of these girls who is like a billion leagues above me, but seems like the kind of girl who doesn't really care about that sort of thing, I hope. I donno, I just got a bit of a crush on her, I'm quite smitten. Donno if she'll say 'yes', but hopefully she will.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:26, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

Aww good luck gonz

( TGB checking Off Topic is still shit at, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:30, Reply)

Cheers =)

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:35, Reply)

I hope you ask her
I'd think you were well brave.
I can only do it by text or email.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:34, Reply)

Thanks, it's the first time I'd have done anything like this since... ermm.... since I left school really.
I'm always well dodgy when it comes to asking girls out, but I figure I'm getting on to 27 now, and it won't be to long before that 2 turns into a 3 and I'd still be in the same spot I am today, except no longer in the prime of my life.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:37, Reply)

PLUS.... PLUS..... if I get her number, I'm not going to get into the habit of texting her for general-chatting.
I always do that and then am like "OH NO, SHE WANTS TO SPEAK TO ME, HEAR MY VOICE, AND SHE'LL SEE I'M ALL NERVOUS, AND I'M NOT GOING TO PICK UP THE PHONE", and it all goes down hill from there.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:40, Reply)

Well, when you're just dating someone, texting is a lot easier
But if it becomes a relationship and you love them, it just happens naturally and you're not nervous on the phone any more. Becuase you're talking to your mate as well as 'a bird, eek!' or 'a bloke, eek!'.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:42, Reply)

Yeah', that makes sense, but I'd try and do a few calls to begin with, just so it's not text-only.

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:47, Reply)

Yeah that's cool

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:51, Reply)

excited for you now Gonz.
we expect an update after lunch too!
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:46, Reply)

this ^

( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:47, Reply)

I bet the update is :
She's not working today
(PsychoChomp, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:49, Reply)

Will do =)

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:51, Reply)

Exackly!
being a barmaid in a nice area (and even in the library) I've had some lovely conversations with some really nice, funny, intelligent lads, and I've really thought "There's something going on here..." But only a handful of those have asked me out, and being a girl, and being on the wrong side of the counter, I'd never have asked them myself.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 12 Aug 2010, 10:40, Reply)