That's a new concept to me.
Being in a relationship and living with somone you actually like.

How does it work?
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:17, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

it's a delicate dance of who wins each argument
Wiggy and I use rock paper scissors to make the important decisions, like who should get up and shut the kitchen window when we've gone to bed.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:20, Reply)

we divide the boring stuff up
She does the laundry. I do the gardening & pay for the cleaner. We take it in turns to cook. Though I'm happy to do the majority of the cooking as it means I get to eat what I like.
(lkjshaglkasjdhglkhjz lkcvl; g;aodh;owih, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:21, Reply)

Wiggy cooks for me every day
I hate cooking and I'm shite at it, he enjoys it. We share the cleaning, although we do have a routine where I clean the bathroom and he then tracks mud all over it the very same day. It's endearing*.

*it's not at all endearing.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:26, Reply)

But if he does all the cooking
You ought to do more of the cleaning.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:33, Reply)

I iron his shirts.
and I'm so cute.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 16:01, Reply)

It works like this:
We do stuff together that we both like.
We also do stuff with our own friends without each other.
We also do stuff together + our friends.
We have some common interests and some separate ones.
But most importantly she's quite happy for me to go to the pub after work without her.
(lkjshaglkasjdhglkhjz lkcvl; g;aodh;owih, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:20, Reply)

+so she can suck off her boss

(PsychoChomp, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:25, Reply)

she works for me (that's how we met) so yes, she does.

(lkjshaglkasjdhglkhjz lkcvl; g;aodh;owih, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:28, Reply)

I think that's the important thing
Wiggy and I do separate things during the week but we usually go to parties and the pub together at the weekends.

I know a couple who do everything together and they've just split up because of it. Also the girlfriend is a bit of a psycho, but that's just served to make Wiggy all the more appreciative of wonderful me!
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:25, Reply)

Got to have some space & some separate interests.
Not healthy to spend all your time together. Particularly for us as she works with me part-time.
(lkjshaglkasjdhglkhjz lkcvl; g;aodh;owih, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:30, Reply)

me and the mrs pretty much do everything together
works for us.

I've just suggested to her some plans that mean we will be able to attend the bash in October and she has agreed. Just depends on whether my bro is available for us to see him over the remainder of the weekend, but the wheels are in motion.

That's right, all you lucky bastards might get to meet me.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:32, Reply)

Oh man, that's awesome,
I think I speak for everyone when I say no one cares.
(PsychoChomp, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:34, Reply)

are you going?
I might have to reconsider
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:40, Reply)

If you're going I might go to that too.
I need to go to one and I would rather you and/or Darth were there. To hold my hand and what not.
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:37, Reply)

hand and
(wellgroomedwookiee is a filthy-minded hobgoblin, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:39, Reply)

haha

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:40, Reply)

class

( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:41, Reply)

i may attend as well

(lkjshaglkasjdhglkhjz lkcvl; g;aodh;owih, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 15:39, Reply)

and the future ex-Mrs Vipros
excellent.

*steeples fingers*
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 31 Aug 2010, 16:02, Reply)