Do you want to know them?
You sound quite bitter about it, which I can understand, but I wondered if that was because you don't know anything about them?
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:47, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

I've got a friend who is adopted
And he was initially keen to find his natural parents, but the folks who adopted him didn't want him to.

It has got to be a difficult thing to do.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:49, Reply)

Yeah it must be hard for both parties
I don't know how I'd feel if it was the other way around, if I had given a child up for whatever reason I don't know if I'd want to be involved in its life, especially if it had happily moved on with adoptive parents.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:52, Reply)

I just want to know what they are like
and where I get my character from as I am nothing like my adopted family
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:53, Reply)

Yeah I think I would want to know that
nature v nurture and all that.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:54, Reply)

And I suppose there are the health implications
Are there any hereditary conditions you need to be aware of.

*lightening the mood of serious conversation since 1974*
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:56, Reply)

that is cause for concern
but it's a shit reason to make contact.
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:58, Reply)

haha
"Hey guys, it's Bobby. How's the cancer? Non existant? Great, bye!"
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:00, Reply)

hahahah
ps you owe me 28 years of pocket money, birthday, christmas presents, tooth fairy money etc. I will accept an AC Cobra.
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:02, Reply)

This is all getting a bit serious now
Almost like a proper 'grown up' conversation.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:54, Reply)

I know I feel honoured. Noones called me dull or shit for ages.

( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:55, Reply)

Fuck off you dull shit.

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:57, Reply)

*warm feeling*

( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:58, Reply)

you're shit and dull and I hate you

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:00, Reply)

*sig five*

( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:01, Reply)

( The Light in Chains don't touch the Pope's boner, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:39, Reply)

I'm not usually but sometimes I wonder what would be different
Id I had stayed in Ireland with them. It's wierd. Plus my name would be Diarmid Kelly which is cooler than Andy.
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:51, Reply)

how old were you?
Do you know the reason for them giving you up? When I was younger I always said that if I got pregnant I would give it up for adoption because at that age I wouldn't be able to give it the life it deserves.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:53, Reply)

I was born with a tumour on one kidney so had that taken out and spent the first 14 months in hospital
before going to foster care and being adopted at 2 and a bit. I will adopt when I'm older and find a girl to put up with me.
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:55, Reply)

Do they let gingers adopt?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 12:57, Reply)

a druggy and a freak
we will be top parents.
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:01, Reply)

I have a feeling I might not be able to have kids
not sure why. But I would adopt over going through all that IVF thing, I think adoption should be first choice over IVF, although I'm aware I may feel differently if it does actually come up. I want to adopt a black baby to upset Wiggy's racist grandma.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:01, Reply)

IVF seems very expensive for what is
at best a roll of the dice. Adopting a black baby would be ace but I want a Japanese baby so he can be my karate kid.
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:03, Reply)

That is the best reason to adopt a black baby.
And I hope their is a box you can tick on the forms you'd have to fill in.

'Reason for wanting to adopt?'

'Racist Grandma' *ticks*
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:04, Reply)

Officelol right here.

(berk, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 13:16, Reply)