He has no idea
but, as I said to Amberl the other day - he was an arsehole of goatse proportions for almost the entire two weeks. I've been on holiday with him before and it was never as bad, and certainly things have been dodgy since we got back. I just don't think I can stand to live with him now, and if I can't stand to live with him, thean should I even be with him? Bleh, doubts are horrible.
I think I need the waaaaaahmbulance. /eeemmmooooo
(berk, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:48, 3 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

I'll join you in that waaaaahmbulance
Definitely doubting relationship stuff, and I feel rather shitty for doing so.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:49, Reply)

It's crap, isn't it?
You think things are ok, and everything is fine, then you remember just how much you wanted to punch them in the face, and oh look, they're doing that REALLY FUCKING ANNOYING thing again and complaining about you being a bit distant. Yes, I'm distant because I'm giving myself a hernia by internalising just how much I want to rage a bit right now, so if you could stop clinging that'd be great.
Aaaand breathe...
(berk, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:55, Reply)

AMEN
*highfives*
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:57, Reply)

I understand what you mean
I had an ex who lived quite far away so I would spend all weekend with him and then not see him for two weeks so you would think I would cherish the whole time I spent with him but I found myself wanting a break from him after a day or two so I realised that it didn't really have a future if I couldn't stand to be with him for long periods and as soon as I noticed that I think I mentally wrote off the relationship so he couldn't do anything right after that.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:54, Reply)

Been there, done that
Although I did enjoy spending my time with her every weekend.

I'm pretty convinced that I like my own space too much to ever commit myself fully into a relationship.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:56, Reply)

Amen and high fives to this also
Especially since I've lived essentially on my own for a good 7 years. Although I fear that 'my own space' and 'too cold and dead inside to actually love someone properly' are interchangeable in my case.
(berk, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:59, Reply)

Maybe in my case too
But that doesn't bother me.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 15:00, Reply)

I was once like you two
my friends said I was cold and dead and incapable of love, and I thought so too until I met Wiggy, so I think you just need to find the right person and the right balance. Although I think I got fucking lucky because he puts up with all my lazy, high maintenance shitehawkery.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 15:09, Reply)

DTMFA

(lkjshaglkasjdhglkhjz lkcvl; g;aodh;owih, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:55, Reply)

Eh?

(berk, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:57, Reply)

Dump the motherfucking arsehole?

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:58, Reply)

Ditch the mother fucker already © Dan Savage

(lkjshaglkasjdhglkhjz lkcvl; g;aodh;owih, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 15:00, Reply)