he hasn't got back to me
what a fucker. You'd have thought a sympathy date was in order
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 15:58, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

He is clearly a cretin. Move on.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:00, Reply)

+to Monty

( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:02, Reply)

I should
I'm just a bit buggered off at this one
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:02, Reply)

what an absolute loser
why do men insist on pulling the old disappearing trick?? it's this simple: you can say something that will mean you can still be friends. or you can avoid having to say or do anything and just make the girl think you are a rude pointless arsehole. seems he might be the latter... his loss, my sweet!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:03, Reply)

Thanks
It's just weird because I am the least pushiest person in the world. I wasn't exactly banging on his door going 'marry me right now you adorable hunk' more just pushing a casual invitation that could easily have been deflected by him or made into a group thing, without loss of friendship on either side
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:05, Reply)

either he is just a bit flaky/rude
and doesn't realise you have to reply to invitations.

OR, more likely as he has a penis, he read whatever you put as "OMG THIS CHICK TOTALLY WANTS IT WHICH IMMEDIATELY MEANS MY OVER-INFLATED EGO HAS SWELLED UP EVEN MORE AND I NOW KNOW COULD HAVE ANY GIRL IN THE WORLD JUST BY SNAPPING MY FINGERS SO I'M GOING TO GO OUT AND FUCK KELLY BROOK INSTEAD"

or something.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:08, Reply)

yeah, all blokes think just like that

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:10, Reply)

give me a better explanation then

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:12, Reply)

stop being confrontational

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:14, Reply)

what the fuck you talking about?

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:14, Reply)

what the fuck are you talking about?

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:16, Reply)

I was being confrontational
what's your excuse?
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:20, Reply)

I'm being deliberately obtuse

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:21, Reply)

Well I'm in a filthy mood
and I have to go buy some sort of cardigan and a new hairdryer
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:25, Reply)

filthy = rude, or filthy = awful?
I'm feeling a bit ropey. I hope this doesn't spoil my evening of eating good food, smoking loads of spliffs and generally lazing about with my mrs.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:31, Reply)

Awful mood
so yeah that probably was a bit rude sorry.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:32, Reply)

Don't apologise, it's Vipros.
If you manage to dent his smugness, you pretty much win the internet.
(wellgroomedwookiee is a filthy-minded hobgoblin, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:37, Reply)

do not disturb
female counselling in session. if amberl were a guy, i'd be saying something totally different!

[but it is true, lots of guys think exactly like this. the first seventeen capitalised words anyway]
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:12, Reply)

I've disappeared on several occasions
It was often nothing to do with the bloke. It was awkwardness and madness. I meant no harm.
Maybe he'll get his head together and realise she's a gem. Maybe he's gone off to kiss more frogs for a while.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Fri 8 Oct 2010, 16:37, Reply)