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Her/his details are up there for all members to see
(, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 12:18, 1 reply, 15 years ago)
not for the likes of Al's friend to look at.
Just because the information is public doesn't mean it's ethical to look for it.
(, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 12:21, Reply)
all Al's "friend" would be able to see is where she/he/it worked. It is hardly stalking
(, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 12:23, Reply)
But what if he did a land registry look up to find out how much her mortgage is. He's only finding out how much her house is worth and that's public record. Or did a credit check on her it's only information about her debts.
My point is basically, where do you draw the line in gathering available information about an ex before it becomes serious.
(, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 12:26, Reply)
if it did, my job would be much easier.
it will only tell you (i) how much they paid for it [provided the transaction took place after 2004] and (ii) if they have a mortgage, and who the mortgagee/chargee is.
if you want to know how much the mortgage is for, you have to write to the bank and ask them to disclose the info.
/sensible answer, is sensible and work-related-experience not stalking-experience.
(, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 12:32, Reply)
It got very complicated very quickly, and was a bit whiffy so I binned it off. Troo story
(, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 12:51, Reply)
to make it worth the hassle. like stamp duty avoidance schemes.
(, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 12:54, Reply)
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