My wife starts arguments
To see me get angry and explode. Apparently that means I care when I get so upset. I think it means I'm pissed off and tired of hearing her shit.

Our magic isn't gone, but it is pretty crappy about half the time.
(CactusZack Shaved his coin purse on, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 15:42, 11 replies)

Oh, my ex used to do that
I wish I could offer some advice beyond "get out now"
( emvee cruor deo cruoris, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 15:44, closed)

She'll say you did
so you may as well give her a few flakes now and have done with it
(Clerk T Hazarde are all the wine, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 15:54, closed)

The Ex-Fiancee used to do that
She would try and pick an argument with me to see if I cared about defending my position. She would also punch and bite me if I dared offer an opinion that differed from her views. Other than that, she was lovely and had massive and firm tits.
( The_Commander_of_Skips wears his sunglasses at night, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 15:57, closed)

Statistically speaking
Womenfolk are more likely to be perpetrators of domestic violence than men.
(Clerk T Hazarde are all the wine, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 18:07, closed)

would you like to give us some actual statistics for that?

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 18:16, closed)

You must be mistaken
I'm not your bitch - google it yourself, you ignorant pleb!
(Clerk T Hazarde are all the wine, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 18:36, closed)

it depends.
it COULD be that it indicates you're neglecting her needs to a point she feels like confrontation is better than apathetic silence. or, she could be pissed about constantly finding trussed up midgets in the cupboard under the stairs but too embarassed to ask about it directly. either way, get out now, before she garrottes you with a shoelace while you post on b3ta.
(UppityDamnPrimate LET'S OPEN THIS F*CKING PIT UP, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 16:05, closed)

Similar
My ex used to start arguements for the "make up sex".

Because of tghe arguments we are no longer having sex. Or anything to do with each other.

Fucking mentals.
(TAZ220 Not giving a toss since, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 16:07, closed)

Oh god, the flashbacks
Run as fast as you can, it *will* break you
( Michael Ellis contributes nothing, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 16:25, closed)

I knew a girl like that.
I would go out of my way to start a fight before she got there first.
Not my true nature, I found it amusing that:
A) When I was as nice as I could have been, she would be a cunt.
B) When I faked getting angry over fuck all and having "a right go". She would do her utmost to make me happy.
Which was the response I tried to illicit from being nice!

Repeat and test. The more vicious prick you can be the more they love it. It's not healthy.
So, be nice and see how that goes, then be mental and test that out come. It she's nice when you are nasty - tell her what you've been doing and then tell her to fuck off. It's not good karma.

EDIT: I'd like to say the level of abuse would be nothing like what i've read here. Being a berk would be the level. Childish silent treatment, stropy and sarcastic. Taking the piss; but getting a laugh at the end. Never physical. Lots of "stick it up your arse for all I care" stuff. So all the above is mouth and no trouser in comparison. Which is a good thing.
(waxdart hello., Mon 25 Oct 2010, 16:39, closed)

By golly
I've read stories by women saying 'just once I want my man to stop being spineless and always giving in during arguments, and to grab me, through me against the kitchen table and ravage me like a real man would'

Take from it what you will
(lemonadegame, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 0:59, closed)