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"Recently," Broken Arrow tells us, "The missus informed me that her brother was moving with us." What has your partner done that's convinced you the magic's gone? "Breathe" is not an answer.

(, Thu 21 Oct 2010, 12:33)
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Making a long story short
Met a girl at a party, called a week later, commencing a 3 month relationship. She was recently divorced. I hadn't gotten laid in a year. I told her my background, she told me hers omitting one key detail. All was well.

Whilst dating she would excuse herself to talk on the phone for a bit. I knew something was up, but I was getting sex. Terrible, lights out, missionary only, "Let me get undressed and then I'll call you in", Leaving immediately after sex. I verified she didn't have a dong, so I let it slide. In a conversation with my friend who threw the party I told her I was dating her friend from the party.

"Oh! That girl with the kid?"

"She doesn't have a kid."

"The girl with the dark curly hair? With the big boobs?"


"She totally has a kid!"

"Let me call you back."

So I called her and after a confrontation she admitted that she had a daughter. That wasn't the problem. But after being together every weekend for 3 months you think she would have said something. I told her it didn't matter and that night she came back over. After some terrible sex she turned to me and asked me if she could shock me.

I asked her if she was going to stick her finger in my bum. She said she was not. Instead she grabbed her purse and showed me a picture of a child.

"So that's your daughter?"


Then she turned to a picture of her daughter holding a baby.

"That's your son?"


"How old is he?"

"4 Months."

It wasn't the baby, it was the lies.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 18:25, 17 replies)
It was the baby
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 18:34, closed)
So, you dumped her?
If you were with her three months and everything else seemed alright, why not give it a try? If you did dump her, maybe one can understand why she was less than forthcoming.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 18:54, closed)

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 19:10, closed)
I think you've both missed the point
it was the lies.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 19:52, closed)
She didn't say "I don't have any kids" she just didn't fess up to it
Much, like I suppose, he didn't fess up to wanking in the shower, or spending time on B3ta.

I don't see where she lied. I do see that when it turns out she had kids the dude splits is a bit suspect.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 19:55, closed)
Aaaaaaand then...
... she stuck her finger up your bum?
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 20:31, closed)
Surely if she had
She'd have been a keeper
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 22:05, closed)
IF he could be sure it was her finger and not another appendage....

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 22:07, closed)
She is a liar after all
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 22:43, closed)
I'm with you on this one
You don't happen to forget to mention you gave birth a month ago. It's not a minor detail.
Lies hurt more than facts.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 22:57, closed)

Plus, it must've been like a wizards sleeve...
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 23:13, closed)
good point, well made
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 23:32, closed)
Wait so...
Did you shag her when she was pregnant??
(, Thu 28 Oct 2010, 1:11, closed)
the kid is 4 months old
they had a 3 month relationship.

are you that bad at maths?
(, Thu 28 Oct 2010, 9:10, closed)
I initially read...
"she didn't have a dong, so I let it slide in."

I was a bit confused there for a minute.
(, Thu 28 Oct 2010, 7:39, closed)
I have heard that
women go off sex for a bit after a baby, maybe that's why she was so crap in bed...
(, Thu 28 Oct 2010, 9:35, closed)
I don't get how you could shag someone
And not realise they're heavily pregnant.

However much of a chubster they are.
(, Thu 28 Oct 2010, 11:11, closed)

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