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Ok, a limited question. It requires you to be hooked up or have had extensive experience.
Ok. Married people and those in long term relationships: When you get an invite to a party (not formal,a sort of text or facebook thing) do you assume it is also an invite to your other half?

Singletons: Ever invited your mates round to find one bring their baggage with them?
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:29, archived)
No.

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:30, archived)
don't you people have any friends you can subject to these endless tedious questions?

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:30, archived)
Endless.
What a grumpy puss you are.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:31, archived)
yes i assume all invites are plus one
unless it's something that needs tickets and then I'd ask
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:30, archived)
NO

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:30, archived)
Depends on the evening surely
A girly night would mean no partners, but if it's just a general party then why not?
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:31, archived)
If she also knows the person, I bring her with me.
If it's a pissup organised by someone she doesn't know, I go on my own so she can't scorn me for acting like a twat.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:31, archived)
if they know you are in a couple then sure, unless it is a lads thing or a meet of old mates, i still wouldn't take anyone, leave them at home you may pull
bingo

www.b3ta.com/calendar/event/19822
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:31, archived)
I don't assume, no.
As we have children and don't like getting babysitting we do most of our social stuff on our own.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:31, archived)
Well done, this is what i wish my mates would do.
Ive already strung a series of lies to get Mrs C to go elsewhere.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:32, archived)
I think it's OK to bring a spouse if you confirm it first

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:32, archived)
Depends who's inviting
if it's someone who knows us both, yes. If it's someone only I deal with, like a colleague, I assume no.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:33, archived)
What about if tis omne of your best mates
who the misses knows.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:33, archived)
Which bit exactly was unclear?

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:37, archived)
Sorry, its just me.
Im vexed.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:39, archived)
Or does she know him but he doesn't know her?

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:40, archived)
Depends who it came from.
If it's from someone we both know then yes, otherwise I'd ask. If it was someone from work or my course I'd assume it was just for me and wouldn't dream of asking.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:33, archived)
bingo? gaz now
www.b3ta.com/calendar/event/19822
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:34, archived)
Yes. To both.
I like my mate's boyfriends/girlfriends lotsly so I don't care.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:34, archived)
"Hey, thanks for inviting me. Guess what i bought along!"

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:35, archived)
A foul bitch that for some reason you like?
God I am bitter it seems.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:36, archived)
I had 100 kilos of excess baggage when I came back to England.
In the end I had to leave her behind.
(not my joke, before anyone points it out)
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:38, archived)
well delievered though.

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:40, archived)
My friends would know already.
Otherwise I'd ask.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:36, archived)
Yeah, this is the thing.
None of us told our mate that we loathe his wife. If we did she is likely to strive to stop him rolling with us.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:37, archived)
"Please come, but leave your bitch of a wife behind."
This is not a recommended friendship strategy.
(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:40, archived)
I know, but I do like it.

(, Tue 9 Jun 2009, 20:44, archived)