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Sadly not very lol over here
towards the end of last year I heard a friend of mine had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. She died yesterday. Her last few months were not very good.
Also been talking to colleagues who knew the young person at work who killed herself.
Not much fucking lol going around right now.
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garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:23,
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doubleplusunlol
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Woodkovsky โน๏ธโ๐ปโ๐ฝโ๐ฃโ๐ฉโ๐งปโ๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:25,
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Yep
not sure how my friend's funeral's gonna go. I'll have to be around for it but may not be allowed to attend due to numbers.
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garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:27,
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since I'm not garOLD like you, the number of funerals I have yet to attend is unlol
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Woodkovsky โน๏ธโ๐ปโ๐ฝโ๐ฃโ๐ฉโ๐งปโ๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:35,
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pancreatic is the fucking worst
slightly related and more positive: today is the one year anniversary of my wife's transplant and she's doing pretty well
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Queef Smegwin U r a ๐๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:29,
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Some good news
very pleased.
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garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:33,
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Hurrah!
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Mr. Tea 'ulmmm'/'mmneurgh', Wed 12 May 2021, 9:47,
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innit doe
apparently it's a big deal for those who've had them, mrs q has referred to it as her 'german birthday' in reference to the lad who donated his cells
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Queef Smegwin U r a ๐๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 10:33,
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I watched a video of a german lad donating his cells once
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The Porcupine From Purgatory we of all lost both have them, Wed 12 May 2021, 10:42,
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niche
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Queef Smegwin U r a ๐๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 10:46,
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just got this now, duh
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Queef Smegwin U r a ๐๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 11:06,
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IBYDYDOB
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The Porcupine From Purgatory we of all lost both have them, Wed 12 May 2021, 11:43,
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so your wife is now part German?
wunderbar!
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Woodkovsky โน๏ธโ๐ปโ๐ฝโ๐ฃโ๐ฉโ๐งปโ๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 12:20,
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she has a german immune system
rather odd really
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Queef Smegwin U r a ๐๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 12:27,
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Humourless yet highly efficient
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dribble, Wed 12 May 2021, 13:02,
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Me, I mean
in b4 brb
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dribble, Wed 12 May 2021, 13:02,
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jeez
I presume there were no outward signs from the person at work that anything was wrong, the way there usually aren't
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Turing's Artificial Hand Sig Sauer, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:32,
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There weren't
and it's not someone I've had direct dealings with (we're a big organisation) so it's not so tough for me, but we're all pretty isolated and I'm worried for team members.
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garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:36,
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the past year and a half has done a proper number on people's mental health
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Turing's Artificial Hand Sig Sauer, Wed 12 May 2021, 8:37,
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Yeah
but ... this girl was still in her teens. I ... just. GAAAAHHHHH.
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garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Wed 12 May 2021, 9:39,
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my mate's kid was 12 when she tried last xmas, luckily she failed
really shocked me
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Queef Smegwin U r a ๐๐, Wed 12 May 2021, 10:34,
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Yeesh.
My girlfriend's dad died of that nearly five years ago. He got great care but it was more or less a forgone conclusion as soon as he was diagnosed. I understand it's one of the least treatable ones you can get.
Sorry to hear about lack of lols.
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Mr. Tea 'ulmmm'/'mmneurgh', Wed 12 May 2021, 9:48,
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And your last year of life falls during lockdown
just... so harsh.
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garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Wed 12 May 2021, 9:52,
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aye, what fucks everything up is that it becomes symptomatic only when it's advanced.
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Smegg Wallace The O.G. Q.R., Wed 12 May 2021, 10:44,
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I don't think "worse things happen at sea" is going to cut it here.
I hope your lols return soon.
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The Porcupine From Purgatory we of all lost both have them, Wed 12 May 2021, 10:34,
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I have very fond memories
of being in a band with her as a kid as she belted out blues numbers. She was a lovely woman, huge fun, infectious laugh and wasn't shy with it. She's been a friend of the family for decades and my folks are both devastated, but have some fantastic memories. Gonna see if I can find some old pics on their HD...
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garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Wed 12 May 2021, 10:37,
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