you are ann widdecombe
AICMFP
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:28, 1 reply)

cor... if only
All you'd need as mental delay spray would be a mirror.
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:31, closed)

question
i was under the impression that there was the whole safe word thing

how do you tell someone whos restricting your breath to the point of you passing out youve decided you'd rather just watch corrie and have a rich tea
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:34, closed)

3 levels of words
green - usally "stop" "no more" etc, means keep going this is ace
Amber - anything really, means I'm not too keen on this try something else.
Red - anything really, means Do that again and as soon as I'm free I will push my foot so far up your arse you'll be spitting laces.
( Laird Dave Draws Now charges to take off his clothes., Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:37, closed)

and if i say
mmmgggnnfff....................




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( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:39, closed)

yeah traffic lights are all well and good
but in many BC scenes you can't speak, or have not enough air to speak. Hence I've always used a throat utterance sequence.
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:42, closed)

the whole BC thing freaks me out
one of my greatest fears is suffocating to death, after having my throat sliced. So of course it seems like a fun idea, but I panic far too much for it to get fun.
( Laird Dave Draws Now charges to take off his clothes., Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:46, closed)

yeah underlying heavy fears wouldn't help I don't think :P
and eep throat slicage. Yeah i've had shivery thoughts about that in the past. Not sure why.. perhaps I just like to scare myself?
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:50, closed)

I use a triple MMPH noise. You can make it under any circumstance.
Three MMPHs in a regular pattern is pretty much set as a trigger in my mind after using the same one for 8 years.

The fact of the matter is though, that I only practice it with people who I trust to know what they are doing, and you always ramp it up from light to heavy, because everyone is different.

In heavy play, if I'm topping, i won't break eye contact once they've been held for a while. There's a tonne of signals you can see beyond just the struggling to see where they are at.. the best part of BC is around the last 10 seconds of possible air, where your mind goes into fight or flight big time. This also involves the interesting situation of absolutely mind blowing orgasms, you just have to make sure that as you're allowing that to happen, that you release at the right time.

I've never had to use a safeword, and never had a sub use a safeword in breathplay before... if you're good at it, you know when. If you're not good at it, start very lightly.. and work up, and don't progress until you know what happens at each stage.

It's incredibly frikkin dangerous, but I've done it countless hundreds of times now.. and I've never ever had a problem once. Completely deprived of air and then blasted with a NOS mix, all sorts.. I however have subbed under BC for so long that I can actually go around 30 seconds without a single bit of air in my lungs.

Seriously though, to those reading it who think the power exchange sounds fucking hot.. really really be careful. People die far too frikkin often.
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:41, closed)

makes a lot more sense
always thought it might be a bit difficult to say 'breadbin' through a ball gag

sounds fascinating but not really for me, the whole rubber and chains things is very pretty to look at but i dont really like pain

i've done some light spanking erm 'as a top'(get me) and would like to visit a club some time (gotta live)

oddly though i can look at some of the stuff on kink.com (im straight) but when there's blood and people shoving needles through stuff. nah. bit scary.

good luck to ya though
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:51, closed)

Fetishism by no means needs to have pain
There's so so much you can do to stimulate someone without doing anything winceworthy, or painful.

Rubber and chains can be combined with sensual stroking, massage, kissing and oral pleasure. Can send a sub wild.. no need for pain at all, can be a most satisfying experience.

And yeah, clubs are good fun. :)
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:55, closed)

then i shall gaz you for advice on novice friendly clubs
i may with a bit of luck have a new job in berks soon which is quite handy for that london

keep up the pervy work young man

oh and lurid tales of celebs would of course go down well also

i'd love to think fiona bruce struts around with a strapon and SS uniform of a weekend
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 1:00, closed)

haha i've not been in London long enough to see the celeb filth yet
but yeah sure.. gaz me, theres a few events on here and there. You should get down for the Fetish Fair. That's always meant to be good!
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 1:11, closed)

London
events I've been to have been disappointing, far too many posers who crap themselves when the toys come out. The Fetish Fair is good though, you'll end up caning your credit card if nothing else.
Up here in the Midlands there's loads on too, and not just clubs where you can't hear yourself think, full of fashion students. Lots of places to go and play!
(Rsoles, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 1:50, closed)

hehe I'm not really up on the straight fetish scene
but down here the gay scene for fetish is second to none.. well maybe to Berlin, but otherwise.. none. Haha.

Brum sounds to be a decent place though, a few nice shops too.. Cocoon do some great rubber gear. Shop smells awful though.
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 2:00, closed)