Yup, then a friend for a couple of hours trying to reassure me I'm not a complete nasty arsehole

( Maximinimus you stick around I'll make it worth your while, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:07, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

You need to jettison her from your life.
If you keep getting these episodes when you're trying to move on, then clearly she expects to have (or want) some sort of hold over you.

Tell her to fuck off.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:10, Reply)

Alternatively, shag her, and when she's lying there in post coital bliss, change your number in her phone, cuddle her til she falls asleep, and curl one out on her chest.
That should work.
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:15, Reply)

She doesn't want me for that
She has her off and on manipulative, alcoholic ex
( Maximinimus you stick around I'll make it worth your while, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:17, Reply)

Hmm, did Monty introduce you to her?
If so, I may have some bad news...
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:18, Reply)

Haha I'm not that cruel.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:21, Reply)

I did, I told her she can't keep doing this
and that she may want to keep someone who manipulates her close but I made my choice and I won't end up like her. That's when she turned nasty, started blaming me for her being unable to sleep, being so lonely, etc.

It didn't help that yesterday evening I found a note she wrote me a few months ago and hid.
( Maximinimus you stick around I'll make it worth your while, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:16, Reply)

Block her number.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:18, Reply)

Not an option due to financial ties

( Maximinimus you stick around I'll make it worth your while, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:30, Reply)

Otherwise, just per her on ignore.
Put your phone on silent when you go to bed and delete without reading any text messages she sends you.

But don't reply, whatever you do, don't reply.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:19, Reply)

I'd been doing so well with not replying
But the conversation started off quite nice
( Maximinimus you stick around I'll make it worth your while, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:31, Reply)

When she says stuff like that, reply something like "lol, gutted", "haha, ace", "Aww Diddums".

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:36, Reply)

How about "Aww tear"?

( Maximinimus you stick around I'll make it worth your while, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:47, Reply)

Now you're getting it!

( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:48, Reply)

The problem is that I'm really not that cruel
And she fucking well knows it, despite what she tells everyone about me :(
( Maximinimus you stick around I'll make it worth your while, Tue 4 Jan 2011, 9:53, Reply)