After 20 years
I still get little triggers every now and again. Usually if I'm massively stressed about something.
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Fri 27 May 2011, 10:29, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

Oh'aye', deffo, when you see some sweets they liked or a cirtain smell goes in the air or something like that.
It won't go away 100%, but I bet it's a damn site easier than the day/week/month/year after it happened.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Fri 27 May 2011, 10:33, Reply)

Hell yeah.
The thing is it was so long ago now I can't even remember the exact date, or the exact nature of the cancer she had; only that it was fucking everywhere by the end. Is that awful?
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Fri 27 May 2011, 10:35, Reply)

Perfectly normal
Unless you're a maudlin, beakering attention-seeker who can't let go of any details because you can use it to get sympathy.
( Kroney, Fri 27 May 2011, 10:37, Reply)

Thank Christ for that.
I mean, I can remember the date that the first episode of Doctor Who was broadcast, and when my wife's birthday is, but I was worried that not being able to remember the anniversary of my Mum's death made me some kind of monster.
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Fri 27 May 2011, 10:40, Reply)

Can you do an impression of a monster this weekend?

(Bazongaloid, Fri 27 May 2011, 10:42, Reply)

Sure thing.
I'll just sleep without my mask on. Or, you could just ask me when my Mum died and HEY PRESTO!
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Fri 27 May 2011, 10:45, Reply)

I really do think that is unfair, she's not beakering for sympathy
She is obviously completely messed up by it, I mean, she had a few issues before it happened, what with all the fishing and stuff, but she's completely lost it since her loss.
(Bazongaloid, Fri 27 May 2011, 10:41, Reply)

You're a horrible man.
Which must make me a complete arsebadger as I lolled heartily.
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Fri 27 May 2011, 10:43, Reply)

If you think that, Al
You might also want to think about being a bit kinder to her about it. Or just leaving her alone. Trolling someone for being a beakering prick I can understand, but not the other.

Unless I missed the point.
( Kroney, Fri 27 May 2011, 10:44, Reply)

No I think you're spot on the money there
I will just leave it alone in future.
(Bazongaloid, Fri 27 May 2011, 10:51, Reply)

I would just add though, to try and show that I'm not a total monster,
that I have only previously mentioned the cats and punching of strangers, I wasn't expecting such an animated response regarding her mother which I why I pointed out that she appeared to have some serious issues and then left it.
(Bazongaloid, Fri 27 May 2011, 10:56, Reply)