This being the first time I've been dumped, I guess it seems much worse in comparison
especially given how long we were together and the vague nature of the dumping.

People can be total cunts to each other. Some of these stories are really brutal.
( Kroney, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:06, 1 reply, 14 years ago)

No easy way though is there?
I understand what you say about the vagueness. You want to know WHAT EXACTLY the problem was?
(Set your faces to Stunned Bigly, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:08, Reply)

The problems all seem to be stuff that I did for sound, logical reasons for the sake of the relationship, though.
That's what boggles my mind. Like staying in a job to ensure we had money to pay the bills whilst she was jumping from dead end job to dead end job. Apparently I should have been taking risks in changing jobs in a period of high unemployment and relentless job cuts.
( Kroney, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:11, Reply)

that's just an excuse, though
surely. Sometimes there aren't firm reasons
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:12, Reply)

^this
People make shit like that up, rather than say I fell out of love with you or I don't fancy you anymore. It hurts less but leaves you wondering what happened.
(Set your faces to Stunned Bigly, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:15, Reply)

Mine gave the mind boggling reason that I was "too nice."
Then a few months later complained to me about what an unreasonable twat her new bloke was. Fucking cheek.
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:15, Reply)

She's an unreasonable headcase
next question.
(berk, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:19, Reply)