I wouldn't like one at all.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:48, 3 replies, latest was 13 years ago)

I wouldn't have one unless the missus wanted a hen do.
Otherwise I'd suggest we all go out together.
( Kroney, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:51, Reply)

You realise it doesn't have to be "loads of people acting like cunts" ... right?
I mean, would you not want to do something with your friends?
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:52, Reply)

My friends would be there. As would my other half
and her friends, by the point of marriage I'd know most of them as well.

I don't really see why it's a bad idea.
( Kroney, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:54, Reply)

It's totally not a bad idea
I was more wondering why you wouldn't do anything if your missus didn't want to, that seemed a bit odd.
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:55, Reply)

No, it's just that if the missus preferred to do it separately
then I don't have a problem with it. It's just I like the idea of everybody getting hammered together.
( Kroney, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:57, Reply)

It's an awful idea, I've hard of two "Hag does"
both ended in tears, one ended with a bot dog in the salad
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:58, Reply)

I don't like the idea of them being your last nights of freedom.
I want to think of it as the start of the wedding, I guess.

Hopeless romantic.
( Kroney, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:59, Reply)

Only a fucking fool does it the night before
regardless of how you actually arrange it. So that part isn't really relevant
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 16:03, Reply)

It's not really that anymore, it's just a piss up with mates
we went to Brighton, got mega lashed, next day did go karting etc, then got mega lashed, went to the dogs, got more lashed, then went out and went to a strip club, got some more lash on, them stumbled home in the light.

Good times
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 16:04, Reply)

With my last relationship anyway
my missus and her mates were also my mates. I just don't see the point of segregation.
( Kroney, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 16:06, Reply)

Some friends of ours had a joint stag/hen do and that was mostly quite good.

( tangledupinblue hairy badge with moving eyes, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:52, Reply)

It was the ex's idea
and, whilst I suspect her agenda was mostly lack of trust, I think it was one of her better ones.
( Kroney, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:54, Reply)

You didn't suggest the Jorvik as the venue for it, did you?

( tangledupinblue hairy badge with moving eyes, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:55, Reply)

meme alert!

( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:57, Reply)

Just make sure that neither your best man nor any of your friends are cunts and you should enjoy it.

( tangledupinblue hairy badge with moving eyes, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:51, Reply)

This^

( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:53, Reply)

^ this ^
Mine was excellent, Sevens rugby at Twickenham, followed by beers, a decent meal and a lot more beer. No dressing up, no practical jokes, just a good day with 20 or so mates.
( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:53, Reply)

Mine was good
The best man was under strict instructions not to pull any shite so we all just had a belting night out instead
( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Tue 26 Jun 2012, 15:52, Reply)