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( , Sun 1 Apr 2001, 1:00)
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More than one. I think most of you saw VC's message earlier. I am a complete and colossal arse. Two people in particular though I really need to apologise to.
First - Vampyrecat. I can never say sorry enough for what I put you through today. From the gaz, to the phone call, to the thread. There is no way I can make this up to you. You were so very strong, so helpful, so brilliant, and I just threw it all back in your face. Then you did an even more brilliant thing:
Halfy. I treated you like an arse when you called me. I treated you like an arse when you text me. I treated you like an arse when I got out. As you were the person who got the police around to my house, and you did actually save my life - I thank you, and apologise most humbly for treating you like shit.
Everyone else, including those who thought I was being a drama queen - sorry for being an arsehole. Those who gazzed - thankyou for taking the time to be supportive. If you're interested, I'm getting a lot more help.
That one other person - thankyou for understanding.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:13, 24 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

accepted. At the moment i'm a bit too drunk to add anything more
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:15, Reply)

And, if you turn up to DiT's bash on saturday, you won't pay for a drink. It's at least something I can do to apologise.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:27, Reply)

I hope you get the help you need.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:19, Reply)

Get yourself sorted there fella. You'll find we're mostly a forgiving bunch.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 23:04, Reply)

I admire you for coming back on to here apologising more than I can fully express. You, sir, are a very brave man x
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:26, Reply)

and I haven't read the thread involved, but I have to say that I am really pleased that people here on OT care about each other to do the things you have mentioned here Hairpot.
I understand that the thread got a bit nasty but ultimately people here do care.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:31, Reply)

it was making light of the situation, given that we had very little information.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:32, Reply)

I feel so out of it all now that I actually have a job and stuff.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:36, Reply)

Almost missed the thread in question due to having a dolescum nap
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 23:07, Reply)

I thought all was good with the Vets.
Hows the job hunting going?
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 23:12, Reply)

Had two interviews last week, so I should hear back from them this week hopefully.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 23:13, Reply)

are a gentleman and a scholar. If the world contained more people like you, who appreciated their friends and noticed the concern and well-wishes of others, even in their darkest hours (I assume) then everyone'd be a lot better off.
I don't know you, but I wish you the best.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:35, Reply)

I said it before and I'll say it now. You can get through this, you just have to take the bad parts with the good. You have a lot of bad stuff in your life right now but it will get balanced out. You have to keep going and hope for the best.
You scared the fucking shit out of me hanging up on me like that, please don't ever do that to me again. Or to anybody else. If someone is talking to you about this kind of thing - it's not because they feel they have to - it's because they *want* to and *can* help. I'm glad you're letting people help you now.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:41, Reply)

because you were being a dick
but you're not being a dick now, so that's progress, well done.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:52, Reply)

And I missed whatever this was, but I'd like to say well done for having the metaphorical balls to apologise, and from what I've seen of ya, you're a good person. So, here's hoping if you need help you get it, and such. Best of wishes.
( , Tue 9 Jun 2009, 22:55, Reply)

although I can guess.
Hope you're feeling alright fella.
( , Wed 10 Jun 2009, 8:46, Reply)
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