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( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:24, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

They're sold out now.
isn't anyone going to ask why I'm in a bad mood?
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:25, Reply)

In reality I broke up a burgeoning relationship on thursday between two friends.
The guy slept with his ex while she was on holiday, I told her best friend.
The guy deserved it for being a dick but I still feel like a bit of a cunt.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:30, Reply)

a tricky position to be in. not sure what I'd do. You're the one with all the facts though, so as long as you think you made the right decision then don't feel too shit about it.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:32, Reply)

dammit I've tried.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:34, Reply)

On the plus side, you get £5 of Vipros Smug Pennies to spend at your own leisure for "doing the right thing".
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:36, Reply)

he did it even though he knew that she adored him, and had done for some time. He also knew that she would be devastated when she found out... just accept that he's a cunt.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:41, Reply)

the fact that she was into him for a year before anything happened is irrelevant though.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:42, Reply)

That's not sarcasm. I'm really asking.
So it would kind of be ok for them to still be sleeping with other people at 3 weeks proper/three months not proper if neither of them were head-over heels?
EDIT: I suppose I meant that for Chomp really. Oh i dunno I've eaten too many cakes and bananas.
/sanity
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:45, Reply)

my view is that if someone likes you, no matter how much, and nothing has happened previously then you have no responsibility to them at all. it is entirely their own issue. Once something has happened, if it is still casual there is a little responsibility there, but still not much. once it is something proper then sleeping with an ex is very much a no-no
edit: that makes more sense
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:48, Reply)

I think I agree.
I wonder if she knew he was a cunt and went ahead anyway though.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:50, Reply)

several times in my youth I was in a position where I liked a girl, we got on really well and had a bit of a snog and stuff, but ultimately they would prefer to go out with some cunt, who they know is a useless cunt.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:51, Reply)

she ignored me.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:53, Reply)

I think the reason I'm so annoyed about it is that she's a very good friend, I've known her since I was 13-14. She hasn't had a boyfriend for a while because her last boyfriend screwed her over and then the one time she starts a relationship within a month he's cheated on her.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:52, Reply)

You might have to get used to feeling bad on her behalf.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:55, Reply)

it's annoying and saddening watching someone like that have these shitty relationships.
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:55, Reply)

Why are you in a bad mood? Why are you in a bad mood? Why are you in a bad mood?
( , Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:27, Reply)
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