Need some advice (God help me)
It is to do with the female of the species. Broke up with the wife a while ago, and have been dating a young lady of which I know. Much teasing, all that sort of thing, the usual, but no actual physical contact until the other night. Things got a bit hot & heavy, SHE stripped off, and had my jeans & boxers round my ankles, and I turned her down, as it didn't feel right. And I just wanted to be a bit respectful.
Now she's saying I'm an inconsiderant shit, and it was there on a plate, why didn't I take it, etc etc.
So- if a man acted like that towards you, lady people, what is the reaction? Bearing in mind I wouldn't sulk and throw a hissy fit if she said no....
( Duke Of Belmsford has got 99 records, but Jay-Z ain't one, Fri 1 Jan 2010, 23:43, 13 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

She's a twat
You're a twat

Stop being twats.
(Fancy a weekend on my Raymondo Luxury Yacht?, Fri 1 Jan 2010, 23:52, Reply)

Astonishing insight!

( Boss Keloid Got your mother's maiden name tattooed on my arm, Fri 1 Jan 2010, 23:58, Reply)

Ah, sorry, male perspective here.
But yeah, I see where you're coming from. She'll have taken you knocking her back as meaning that you are nowhere near over your ex. Unless you never told her that bit and then you've really hurt her feminine pride and her seductive failure.
( Boss Keloid Got your mother's maiden name tattooed on my arm, Fri 1 Jan 2010, 23:58, Reply)

everyone is secretly (or not so secretly)
insecure. It probably took a lot of courage to do that. Think why you turned her down and explain it, see how that goes.

a female perspective, btw, but I'm usually crap at relationship stuff so I don't know if you should really pay attention to it
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 0:03, Reply)

I agree
Once he explains, surely she'll be impressed with his masculine fortitude and respect!
( Boss Keloid Got your mother's maiden name tattooed on my arm, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 0:06, Reply)

Bender

(Cancer Joy was short lived, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 1:35, Reply)

No female perspective here but
I think your sig doesn't really work for this post!
(bill, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 1:50, Reply)

Would you have got mardy if she'd turned down your advances?

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 7:39, Reply)

Nah, he said up there ^ that he wouldn't.
He's going to have to explain to her, because if I was a bird (which I am) and he'd let it get as far as nekkidness and then said no, I'd just take it as total rejection, or repulsion, or madness.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 7:53, Reply)

Thanks all
I did expect the "Bender" comment, so no surprise there. Told her basically that I was a twat, as it took so much for her to do that (as said above), but as its something I have a viewpoint about, I'm offski.
( Duke Of Belmsford has got 99 records, but Jay-Z ain't one, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 9:29, Reply)

You turned her down after clothes came off.
Nudity and humiliation, sounds like a nightmare.
(Mrs Ballunatic counting calories, not votes., Sat 2 Jan 2010, 12:04, Reply)

She took her clothes off
Not me. And she undid my belt, and jeans. I call it 50/50.
( Duke Of Belmsford has got 99 records, but Jay-Z ain't one, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 14:09, Reply)

Bloke here
Have you no testicles?
( idonthaveafunnynickname Drink-Aware? Sure. I'm aware I want another drink., Sun 3 Jan 2010, 23:12, Reply)