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Alt Q: Have you ever cheated on a significant other? Did you feel guilty?
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 17:32, 18 replies, latest was 16 years ago)
it is ok. the netgear usb dongle is fucking atrocious though.
technically I have. the full detail is here: www.b3ta.com/questions/guiltysecrets/post88822
basically. was going out with and living with a girl at uni. wouldn't have lasted much past end of uni which was rapidly approaching. girl from my course and I mutually decided we fancied each other.
I didn't want to dump my current gf just before finals, so told her I needed some time to work out my feelings.
canoodled with the new girl a bit, but nothing too full on.
eventually split up with gf when exams etc. were out the way.
I was living a weird double life for a while. pretty uncomfortable really.
turned out ok though because I'm now engaged to the girl from my course.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 17:37, Reply)
never full on cheated. But kissed other people while in a relationship (and felt terribly guilty afterwards.) I split up with the person though a few days afterwards, since I reckon that if I'm kissing other people it probably means I shouldn't be with them
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 17:40, Reply)
because I would hate myself forever.
I have a BT homehub if that helps?
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 17:47, Reply)
get something that does 802.11n and you should be fine.
and: Yes & yes.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 17:58, Reply)
No. I came close, because my ex was a demon, and I really wanted to leave but I had bloody Stockholm Syndrome or something, and this person loved me. Or he thought he did. I had a mere crush on him and I think that's all he had on me really, and I saw him as an escape.
We sat up all night one night listening to tunes, and talking about what we wanted out of life , what we were going to be when we grew up and all that. We were sat really close and it was obvious that one of us wanted to say something. But nobody did. Not all night, not all morning, not even when the Chart Show came on and nutter got out of bed, dragged me into the room and accused me of things I hadn't done.
I'm glad we didn't. I saw him once just after me and the demon split up. He agreed it would have been a bad idea, but he was glad I was out of that situation all the same. He made me feel ace when everything seemed crap.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 18:08, Reply)
Yes, I have. Procipitating the end of my first marriage, although the affair was over by then.
It was awful. Full story another day I think.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 18:10, Reply)
Yes, I have. Precipitating the end of my first marriage, although the affair was over by then.
It was awful. Full story another day I think.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 18:10, Reply)
Interesting - I edited to correct the spelling, but it posted the whole thing again. Hmmm.
(, Fri 14 May 2010, 9:20, Reply)
But yes, I have cheated, once, and it was devastating because it was totally out of character for me. I was always completely honest with my ex, and that mistake changed her opinion of me forever.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 18:14, Reply)
In my defence I wasn't the only one he was cheating with and they weren't married. He even boffed her cousin.
I do seem to have crap taste in men.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 19:33, Reply)
But one did suspect me of cheating, and it was very grim.
I wanted to do it just to spite her. I didn't though.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 19:41, Reply)
I was accused of being with everyone I bloody looked at.
(, Thu 13 May 2010, 20:00, Reply)
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