Just put him on ignore and then the post will disappear.
And no on the dress. It will swamp you. You are short and curvy so need something that shows your figure. Goks!
( girlinthehole, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 14:57, 3 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

But I don't want to ignore him
What if he writes something interesting later?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 2 Jun 2010, 14:59, Reply)

I very much doubt it.

( girlinthehole, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 14:59, Reply)

ZING!
I like it.
(TheColonel, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:16, Reply)

Highly
unlikely.
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:42, Reply)

it's a cool dress
but if you are the shape BGB says then I agree with her
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:07, Reply)

Mmm... I'll have to rethink it, then
But I do like so much that type of dresses :(
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:19, Reply)

The thing hyou need to do most is try things on
DO NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WONDERFUL
Your idea of wonderful, that is. Not anyone elses, not anyone in the shop. Wear something you like, and fuck the haters.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:21, Reply)

I just want you to look beautiful : )
But you need to be happy in it too.
( girlinthehole, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:23, Reply)

I know, and I should listen to you
As I said to Kristine, I don't want to be dressed as a princess. Maybe more corset on the top and tighter all the way to my hips, and then fluffy, or something.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:25, Reply)

You can go for something hippy but something more fitted to show those killer curves.

( girlinthehole, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:37, Reply)

I like it too.
And I thought that it was the type of dress I wanted for my wedding - however, also being short and curvy, I was quickly disavowed of that idea when I saw that I looked awful in that style of dress.

It also turns out that the dresses which are tight all the way to the hips only suit those women who lack the afore-mentioned hips.

I'm going for extreme corsetry and a nice full (but NOT princessy) skirt for mine.
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:34, Reply)

I can't go for the same choice as you
As his ex wife was wearing something similar for their wedding.

You're probably right about the hips. I need to book one of my few female friends and convince her that a trip to try wedding dresses is fun.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:36, Reply)

Have you thought about having it made?
Go try on a bunch of dresses to get the style you like (it's fun, go with a couple of friends and an older female relative who'll give sound, calm advice), then talk to a dressmaker. Way cheaper than buying a "proper" wedding dress. And you can ask them about dyeing it afterwards so you can wear it again for other occasions.
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:42, Reply)

I had thought of something like that, yes
I might start asking about references, as I don't know anyone here apart from Mark's family, but they're very posh, and I don't want to trust my dress to someone I don't know at all.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 2 Jun 2010, 15:55, Reply)