Well, we've been back together for a couple of months now
And she knew I wasn't keen on putting it up on FB.
Edit: But I'm obviously happy to put it up now, else I wouldn't have done so :p
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:11, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

I hate that you have to announce it to everyone
and then if you break up everyone goes "Oh no, what happened?"
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:19, Reply)

it does give the opportunity for amusing japery

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:20, Reply)

j r
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:22, Reply)

Yep, plus I'm friends with an ex, and didn't want it to seem like i was rubbing my new relationship in her face
(I'd obviously told her though)
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:22, Reply)

that's always an interesting one
I've often wondered when my ex became aware of my mrs, and how soon after we'd broken up. and also how much she knew or minded that I had technically cheated on her (she didn't know at the time I'm sure of that)
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:23, Reply)

As soon as my Lady and I became an 'item', I let the ex know
To be fair, we'd split up 18 months before then, but she's a good friend and we always stayed in touch. She didn't really take it well, said some things that shook me, and so I didn't want to broadcast it on FB.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:26, Reply)

that sucks a bit that she can not take it well after 18 months
I'd say you kind of lose any right to that sort of thing way before that
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:27, Reply)

Doesn't stop someone feeling things though
No matter if they have a right to or not.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:29, Reply)

that is true
people need to learn to keep things to themselves sometimes though!
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:30, Reply)

Oh certainly, myself included!
I don't blame or resent her for it though.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:31, Reply)

good stuff
sounds like you are happy with your lady now though. good job.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:32, Reply)

Cheers!

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:36, Reply)

Did she expect you to be single forever?

( girlinthehole, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:27, Reply)

For a long time I expected to be

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:30, Reply)

I wish I'd expected to be single for so long.
It would have made things a lot easier.
( girlinthehole, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:32, Reply)