in a brief nutshell
3 of us were good mates from work. when she got a new job and needed to be in central london rather than where she lived, i offered her my spare room. then last november we had a bit of a row and haven't spoken since. i was out with the mutual friend on fri, and she/her boyfriend decided to tell me! cue ragerageragerage.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:02, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

Second hand like that
could just be winding you up/ leaving out vital details I guess for the sake of a good story
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:08, Reply)

i would like to think this
but the girl in question... she grew up on a farm and is very practical, i guess she didn't see anything wrong with it. she knew enough not to tell me about it though! christ, i won't even share the same pot of houmous with someone if they double dip, never mind THIS!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:12, Reply)

it is disgusting
however when I think of the situation (and I'm of the same mode of mind as you i.e. never that's disgusting) she must have been truly dying. I can't imagine that she'd do it otherwise, I really can't. So she must have felt actual shame at it which would be why she didn't tell you.

I still can't fathom why the floor though. If the situation was as desperate as all that, why not something better. Even a plastic bag or biscuit tin or something
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:15, Reply)

EXACTLY
mind you, she had to pay for a new bathroom carpet at her parents' house after a similar incident involving food poisoning, so she does have previous form. urgh.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:21, Reply)

bathroom carpet?
Surely that's just asking for trouble...
( Tedium Alduce me to interlow myself., Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:22, Reply)

actually i may have exaggerated that
i think it was the bath mat. but still.

fucking incontinent beast.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:25, Reply)

Yeh', I wouldn't tell anyone, no matter how much I trust them or not.
All blokes have been at a house party or walked home from the pub and taken a sly one down an ally in the back garden. It's almost a right of passage, you and 4 mates standing up against a wall in an ally and having a piss, stepping backwards.

But taking a dump in a bedroom is quite rank, but it was done yonks ago and you didn't realise so I guess it would be no big deal, some people just can't hold it.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:12, Reply)

to be fair
if i still liked her, i wouldn't mind as much, i guess.

but in hindsight, she really abused my generosity with the flat, and she turned out to be a massive pain in the arse, therefore the rage!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:13, Reply)

Yeh', taking a dump in someone's bedroom in dire circamstances doesn't make someone a bitch.
Being a bitch makes someone a bitch though.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:16, Reply)

wise words gonz, wise words
but i maintain there is something inherently Wrong with your statement "taking a dump in somebody's bedroom" whichever way you look at it!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Sun 17 Oct 2010, 12:20, Reply)