domination/submission
and I'm really not. So he just left
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:31, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

How do you get to that level of conversation
Over a game of Scrabble?

I need to know.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:32, Reply)

he kissed me
I thought it was going well :(
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:33, Reply)

it sounds as if it kinda was
at first anyway
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:35, Reply)

it was at first
but I've had real pain, I don't even want to dabble in pain.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:38, Reply)

agreed
pain is not sexy!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:40, Reply)

sadly so
I'm really rather upset
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:43, Reply)

but there is one huge plus point here
HE TOTALLY WANTED YOU!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:45, Reply)

but I'm still really upset

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:53, Reply)

yeah i can see that
when for a moment you think it's going perfectly, then crash back to earth. fucking sucks.

poor beast!!! x
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:54, Reply)

I am really really upset

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:57, Reply)

does it have to be a dealbreaker?
he obviously fancies you or he wouldn't have pulled you, so maybe it's just a case of him not trying the whole D/S thing??
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:58, Reply)

He's walking out
because of it
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:03, Reply)

yes
but it has only just happened. on reflection, he might think, well everything else is there, i can easily do without that shit?
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:05, Reply)

then hes a twat and its better you find that out now
Than several months down the line
( TGB checking Off Topic is still shit at, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:05, Reply)

i try to remember this advice
with every new failure! sometimes it works. sometimes you still get upset. but even when you get upset, they are still a twat.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:07, Reply)

Hey. Blokes have feelings too.
We still get grumpy when things don't work out, and we feel like even bigger twats 'cos we can't talk to anyone about it. Brave face and all that.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:10, Reply)

some blokes do
some blokes just find it easier to behave like twats and pretend nothing happened!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:12, Reply)

Then they are twats
Most of us still have feelings
( Tedium Alduce me to interlow myself., Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:13, Reply)

I don't I smoked them away

( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:16, Reply)

not the last couple i tangled with, which has just made me even more cynical!

( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:17, Reply)

What was wrong with the last couple?
Feel free to reply from the left.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:18, Reply)

ach
just turned out to be nowhere near as nice or genuine as i thought, no big drama lolz!!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:21, Reply)

You'll find the right person in due course.
You've just not found them yet.

Find Mister Right, not Mister RightNow and you'll be sound.

Bow to the experience of Jeff on this one Swipe (although I don't want a Mr).
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:23, Reply)

nah
thank you but i think i might just give up!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:24, Reply)

Don't give up.
Otherwise you'll spend your life on the right of the screen. And no one wants to be there!
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:25, Reply)

dude if youre picking some tiny overall aspect of a relasionship
As a reason not to be with someone you're a twat
( TGB checking Off Topic is still shit at, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:13, Reply)

This
I could totally overlook the fact TGB is the devil and try and make it work....
( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:15, Reply)

yeah but loads and loads of blokes do this
one tiny thing and they go straight off a girl.

whereas girls can talk themselves into anything!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:16, Reply)

If only.

(dozers, do fuck off ur a nob m8, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:17, Reply)

on which bit?!

( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:20, Reply)

Dangit, you broke my ^this....
On my end, the "girls can talk themselves into anything".
From my experience, they seem to be able to do the opposite just as easily.
( Tedium Alduce me to interlow myself., Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:21, Reply)

most of my girlfriends
didn't really like their now husbands that much on the first couple of dates, but talked themselves into putting up with it. then i have male friends who have dumped lovely girls for the most stupid of reasons (er, not that they EVER thought of telling the girls those reasons of course)
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:26, Reply)

^this

( Tedium Alduce me to interlow myself., Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:20, Reply)

Is he a hack?
If so, I know of some very good rumour mongers in the Union
( Tedium Alduce me to interlow myself., Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:06, Reply)

you're lovely
but sadly not. It made me feel unwanted though
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 0:32, Reply)

well easily id imagine if anyone made either
Domination or submission
( TGB checking Off Topic is still shit at, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 23:34, Reply)