We're just mates.

( girlinthehole, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 12:54, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

You can be
fuck buddies. It's good to have sex with mates sometimes.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 12:56, Reply)

True

( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 12:57, Reply)

Not really my thing.

( girlinthehole, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 12:57, Reply)

You should give it a try
Mark and I started like that, and look. Maybe in 3 years I'll be going to your wedding (scaring you properly?)
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:02, Reply)

That's a bit sweet
Lucky bastard
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:03, Reply)

Hahaha
Well, thanks. Took him a bit more by surprise than it took me, as I had my feelings quite clear. Until very recently he's not been able to tell me that he loves me more than he's ever loved before, or things like that. He's doing very well now, though.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:05, Reply)

Don't worry, you'll break him soon enough!

( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:06, Reply)

I think he's broken already
he's even started talking about having kids, can you believe that?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:14, Reply)

depends on the mate
sometimes they turn out not to be a mate at all. this is doubly not worth it if the sex was also shit!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 12:58, Reply)

But that's easy to know from the beginning
If he doesn't text/call you after 4 days, he's a twat. It's a good way to check if your mates are good mates or not, and provides you some sex as well.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:01, Reply)

you are absolutely right
following which the response to such a rude sack of shit is: (i) never text or call him again; (ii) never invite him to anything again; (iii) delete him from fb; (iv) warn your female mates so that they and their friends will never ever go near him or his cock either!

passive-aggression. best of all the sulks.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:11, Reply)

And women are so good at it!
Apart from me. I'm the "we need to talk" type.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:15, Reply)

Have you ever tried to get a man to talk.
It's like pulling fucking teeth.
( girlinthehole, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:18, Reply)

I know, I know
and then he gets upset because I'm pressuring him. Stupid people, men.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:23, Reply)

it's because they don't want to
because they don't give a shit about you or your feelings - friendship or anything more - in the first place.

you were a hole, you got filled a couple of times, now they have done that, you are of zero interest to them compared to fresh unfilled pussy to be hunted down or real boy-mates to go out drinking with...
( rachelswipe with a fork, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:32, Reply)

Blood hell!
You're more bitter than me and that's saying something.
( girlinthehole, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:36, Reply)

i'm being flippant really
it's only true of the real shallow wankers!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:44, Reply)

This is not true of all men.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:36, Reply)

I agree!
But enough for it to be a problem.
( girlinthehole, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:44, Reply)

If you can stay mates though, it's fantastic
I know one lad who received a text saying "I need a lay. Get here now" while he was in the pub. He was gone in about 30 seconds.
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:02, Reply)

Was she fit?

(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:03, Reply)

I find her attractive aye
It's Singapore Girl
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:04, Reply)

I see
She must be attractive, then. Pitty she didn't text you instead.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:07, Reply)

She might have done
But I tend to avoid admitting to anything I've done sexually on here, as usually I'll get accused of bullshitting.
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Wed 24 Nov 2010, 13:33, Reply)