Embarrassing?
When I got raped at 19, I guess. I probably shouldn't have been the one ashamed, but when you're a bloke, that's how it goes.

You'll be happy to know however that it pierced my Christian inhibitions and a month later I came out as gay. I've still never had a relationship, but I've had a lot of consensual sex with guys since then, and I found out what I like

And the guy who did it actually apologised to me ten years later.

I still slapped him round the face. Hard.

B3ta virginity finally gone too, at 37.
(jajwhite, Sun 15 Mar 2009, 9:28, 12 replies)

What a story to come out with for your first post.
Hopefully you'll turn from a B3ta virgin to a B3ta slut like most people on here.
( girlinthehole, Sun 15 Mar 2009, 9:38, closed)

Holy shit!
You're 37 and yet to have a relationship? That's fucked. Sure am glad I didn't get raped in my adolescence.
(Leyxia, Sun 15 Mar 2009, 11:35, closed)

^you
are a fucking tool. What kind of a person would say that? Seriously?
(jennymnemonic, Sun 15 Mar 2009, 20:15, closed)

Just look at his previous replies.
After reading, would you expect anything else from someone like that?
(Potty Jag har smör i min rumpspringa, Mon 16 Mar 2009, 8:21, closed)

Strangely
I kind of wish you had.

By a rhinocerous.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 16 Mar 2009, 9:38, closed)

Don't worry Leyxia!
Tedious sociopaths like you generally tend to get what is coming to them eventually.
It'll probably hurt.
( sm.pl.crt.rs I don't fucking know, do I?, Tue 17 Mar 2009, 17:31, closed)

I don't blame you
I can't go down the streets of town alone anymore - just in case I meet the guy who did the same to me.
Only he didn't apologise.

/hugs.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 15 Mar 2009, 12:39, closed)

Been there, done that,
with me it just stopped me having any kind of relations for about 3 years, but I got over it.

Much sympathies and hugs and respect for being so open to us.
( ..wil, Sun 15 Mar 2009, 12:53, closed)

He needs more than just a slap
If you know his identity, then you should report him to the police.

It doesn't matter - even if the incident was many years ago. It's still a crime and he needs to be punished.

Perhaps you weren't the only one he did it to? He could have seriously screwed some people's lives up.

An apology and a slap is not good enough.
(EuroSong I love horse meat: best of all the animals, Sun 15 Mar 2009, 18:42, closed)

Eurosong is right
report him.
(Evilweevil is covered in bees, Sun 15 Mar 2009, 23:26, closed)

Talk to the police
I was raped by Bono and the Edge years ago. However, it was better than the real thing.
(powervator and NONE SHALL PASS, Mon 16 Mar 2009, 1:05, closed)

I'm impressed by your restraint
Personally, I'd have beaten the living shit out of him.
( wynoh kills threads by his mere presence, Mon 16 Mar 2009, 4:31, closed)