Why is it
If a guy who is interested in you texts with lots of xxxx's at the end, or texts lots of times without a reply then he's just regarded as being really keen and it's encouraged? (as has been known to happen) But if the girl responds and does anywhere near half the same she is seen as whiningly desperate and he runs away like the wind? Its sickening.
(hashorangutan is watching iCarly on, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 20:08, 16 replies)

I had no idea this happend.
who's "the girl" sending these texts then?
( Ring Of Fire A petty, drooling belming butthurt retard., Wed 6 Jan 2010, 23:22, closed)

A friend
Of a friend... naturally...
(hashorangutan is watching iCarly on, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 23:41, closed)

:)
well it all sounds terribly unfair.
( Ring Of Fire A petty, drooling belming butthurt retard., Wed 6 Jan 2010, 23:45, closed)

Ah
Chalk it up to experience!
(hashorangutan is watching iCarly on, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 0:01, closed)

a guy who puts "xxxxxxx" at the end of a text?
dump him. now. seriously
( writerblock ... embedding disabled by request on, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 23:42, closed)

Thats a normal reaction
Until your friends convince you that he's a keeper and you're just being cynical. The bastards
(hashorangutan is watching iCarly on, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 23:56, closed)

no
he's wet
and not in a good way
( writerblock ... embedding disabled by request on, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 0:05, closed)

Come on now, the PC term for such men is "sensitive".

( The Mock TurtIe ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 0:30, closed)

"a puddle jumper"
"keeps coins in his wallet"
(Raol Duke, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 13:52, closed)

Probably a botty-botherer

( idonthaveafunnynickname Drink-Aware? Sure. I'm aware I want another drink., Thu 7 Jan 2010, 0:59, closed)

Agreed
Personally I'd think exactly the opposite, guys look desperate, girls look keen (though that depends on the volume of texts, 2-3 once a week or so, ok, every hour on the hour for a month... just weird)
( Tedium Alduce me to interlow myself., Thu 7 Jan 2010, 1:49, closed)

Agreed
I would say it is the other waay round, geezers are seen as desperate whereas lasses are keen and interested.
(Captain Sensible "I'll be your animal in a yellow plastic bin", Thu 7 Jan 2010, 4:59, closed)

ooh
you sound like a scary stalker
( 4Q just lurking, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 23:57, closed)

Possibly
He just likes you?
(Medical_Male Say aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 3:01, closed)

He was a little bit too eager beaver at the start,
but apparently responding in kind is a real turn off, hence the cloud of dust rising up behind him. Sexism at it's worst (best?).
(hashorangutan is watching iCarly on, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 11:13, closed)

That's really interesting xxxx

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 6:29, closed)