It it a constant source of astonishment to me
just how shallow men are. I get interest now from the kind of guys who would have laughed in my face when I was fat. However, what's worse is that now I get that kind of attention, I am much more shallow myself...
That said: Ons - sense of humour, nice eyes, nice smell, ability (or at least willingness) to please, intelligence, being able to hold a decent conversation.
Offs: poor hygiene, being boring, stupidity (or a lack of willingness to improve oneself) moodiness, selfishness, jealousy, refusal to acknowledge another point of view.

I think the only thing that's ever been a dealbreaker for me was that he was a religious and I'm really not, and he could not or would not just let it go - constantly saying how nice it would be if he could share his faith with me and 'oh, it'd be lovely to see you at church this week' etc. It culminated in me being dumped for being too stubborn to just acquiesce as his last few (and current) girlfriends had. This is the same guy who locked himself in my bathroom for 45 minutes to cry when I gave him a blowjob. God doesn't like that sort of behaviour, apparently.
(berk, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:55, 5 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

God loves a BJ!

( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:56, Reply)

This is why Christians are cunts

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:57, Reply)

haha, oh man
I went out with a born-again when I was about 22. No penetrative sex as "god wouldn't like it" .. which was fine. Except she was very far from a virgin, hence the born again thing ... that confused me.

Also, I never got a sensible explanation as to why god wouldn't like sex but was apparently happy with her giving me a blowjob pretty much every convenient opportuninty. And some very inconvenient ones.

Mental.
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:58, Reply)

I don't know how you can be astonished, men are by nature shallow cunts.
Someone could be a perfect fit for me in every single way, but if they're unattractive there's no way in a million years I'd go anywhere near them. But then the same applies that even if they were ridiculously hot but a massive cunt, I'd go nowhere near them either.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:01, Reply)

Well I knew this in general terms
but the actual specifics still have the capacity to surprise.
(berk, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:03, Reply)

Oh man, you should meet me.
You'd never be surprised by anybody else ever again.
( Kroney, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:10, Reply)

That's not shallow, if you don't fancy them, you don't fancy them
it's nature and you can't force it.

lighten up fatties and go get some
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:04, Reply)

But fat doesn't equate to unattractive in all curcamstanses.
I've meet girls who I thought were plain in the looks department but then after an evening of stunning conversation found they are unbelievably attractive (and the reverse is true too).
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:27, Reply)

The best kind of sex involves one person crying and two people high-fiving.

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:10, Reply)

God, if I'd said that, it'd be my new sig.
Have a click.
( Kroney, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:19, Reply)

if anyone else said
they'd be locked up
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:23, Reply)

or in your case
just one person crying, eh?
(Quinton had to abandon other account as i broke it, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 23:46, Reply)