This is all getting a bit metaphysical for a Tuesday
(yes I know what you mean, I think)
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:10, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

As best I recall I was 20
but you would have been 16 at the time.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:11, Reply)

True enough
At 16 I was still pretty much unawareof what a woman was, barring my relatives who obviously don't count for the purposes of this conversation.

All Norfolk jokes will be ignored.
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:14, Reply)

Really?
I was well aware from the age of about 12, but was painfully shy and had no social life (now there's a surprise) so took me until my 20s to have the opportunity.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:17, Reply)

All boys school
Coupled with socially awkward and mostly shunned by the kids I'd gone to Primary School with, as they were all at the local comp together
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:20, Reply)

Ditto.
do you think we're maybe giving away too much ammunition here?
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:21, Reply)

I suspect there are too many glass houses
to throw those stones
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:23, Reply)

I suspect you are right
I was 19, because I was a fat, geeky, metaller, stoner
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:24, Reply)

I was 20
fat, geeky, weirdo. Was lucky to get some then, I think
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:25, Reply)

Wow, this is like group thearpy
shall we do who had least friends next?
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:27, Reply)

yay.
lets just assume we all owned cagoules and NHS glasses. I think that's the most accurate thing to do
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:29, Reply)

Both, but not at the same time

( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:31, Reply)

hehe
when I hit 14 or so I was allowed non nhs glasses. Foolishly I had massive plastic ones. Terrible. One day I'll dig out the picture of me with short hair in those things. *shudder*
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:32, Reply)

I can see it in my mind.
Luckily my eyes didn't get bad til I was 15-16 and I managed to delay getting glasses until I was out of secondary school.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:35, Reply)

I was 4
and those bastards are HEAVY. I reckon I could have lifted weights with my nose and ears in those days
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:36, Reply)

Ditto
On all counts
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:37, Reply)

I've always had plenty of friends fortunately
I blame part of the whole late loss of virginity thing on the fact that I never met any girls who weren't interested in remotely the same things as me.

Meeting girls who were into rock music at university was an amazing experience for me.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:29, Reply)

So very this (last point)
Actually, meeting girls was pretty amazing full stop, I'd only just met my ex a few weeks previously and was still fairly wide-eyed about the concept. Meeting girls who liked the same screamy bands I did was fucking brilliant.
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:32, Reply)

Me
End of story
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:30, Reply)

I'll let you win.

( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:32, Reply)

Point
And I at least give not one fuck, it's all history.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:24, Reply)

Personally
I couldn't find either of you any hotter if you told me you were totally into D&D as teenagers.

Mind you, you both beat me in age and time, so I'm hardly one to talk...
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:23, Reply)

Hmmm, well
D&DWarhammer Fantasy Roleplay teenagers early twenties

Well, for me anyway, Darth was probably much more macho.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:26, Reply)

I was into football until I got to Uni, does that count?
Then I took up LARPing...
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:30, Reply)

and that's when he really started hitting it off with the ladies

( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:31, Reply)

Given the male/female ratio in LARP
I'm amazed female LARPers are ever single.

Sorry, this probably does not help.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:34, Reply)

:(
It's the gathering a week Friday, biggest of all the larp events. Time to try and pull, perhaps
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:35, Reply)

Dust off you best chain-mail bikini and most seductive axe.
You can try and pull my Cousin if you like, he's single and will likely be there. Actually I should find a way to introduce you, I think you might get along.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:37, Reply)

What faction?
Is it going to turn out I know him?
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:38, Reply)

Probably not.
I don't know factions, he was being a wherewolf last I talked to him, or maybe a vampire or both. Have Texted him to see if he's going.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:41, Reply)

you can't be a werewolf
and a vampire. That's crazy
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:43, Reply)

he has been known to be playing mor than one system at any given time.
Having looked up The Gathering, I suspect he may not be playing you system but the name sounds familiar so I may have heard him mention it.I'll Gaz you his real name and see if I can dig out details from his Facebook.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:45, Reply)

Ironically, yes
All the female friends I made who were into metal decided to give LARP a go. As I was less grossly overweight than most LARPers, I was reasonably popular.
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:36, Reply)

*forms cunning plan*

( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:37, Reply)

it off with
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:43, Reply)

haha
this

one year we used the slogan "make news friends and kill them" to get people to join
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 16 Aug 2011, 16:44, Reply)