I'm still paying off thousands of pounds of debt my ex left me with
It'll take me years. Before I've spent one penny, £165 goes out of my account every month to scratch the surface of my managed loan from the bank.
But you know what? I don't mind. Put it this way, if somebody said to me right now "Ok, you can go back in time to when you lived together and it looked like there was no way out, and that was it, your life forever with that nutter. Or... give us ten grand and the fucked up mentalist is gone forever. Let's call it £165 per month at a ridiculous interest rate?" I'd agree in a flash.

(the cunt took loads of my CDs and irreplaceable video recordings though)
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:19, 4 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

I feel like a right cunt now : (
You've had it far worse than me.
( girlinthehole, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:22, Reply)

It's all relative hun. Hurt is hurt.
Although I'll wager nobody here has been woken in the night by a ripping sound, run out onto the landing to discover your 'better' half hacking at their forearms (never the wrist unfortunately) with a razor blade, and when you try to stop them, they corner you and flick blood all over you saying "You did this!!!"
I'd say that was a unique claim. I am laughing right now because I'm over it and it's so fucking emo!
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:27, Reply)

ewwwwww

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:39, Reply)

I know! Vile!
I was like "Watch the landlord's carpet!!"
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:41, Reply)

When I was living with one guy I cut my finger on some glass
so I rang his parents house, where he said he was, but it turned out he wasn't there at all, he was with his other woman. He came to take me to the hospital and left the woman in my flat. Then he ditched me at the hospital with a friend of his so he could take this woman home and fuck her one more time before coming back to pick me up.

I wouldn't be so bitter if it wasn't him who put the glass in the bin that I cut myself on. There goes my hand modelling career.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:41, Reply)

Wow, that's some extra-cunty behaviour

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:43, Reply)

isn't it!
I still speak to him now and I think I must have forgiven him because I'm not angry anymore. The scar is over an inch long but it's not hugely noticeable.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:47, Reply)

I tried being ok with my ex
but then she turned nasty again and took all drugs and stalked me and there was a fracas with my little mum and dad and we had to tell the police on her
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:50, Reply)

boys are rubbish
also, from Roota's story, girls are rubbish, too.

Basically people suck
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 12:27, Reply)

Nah, people are mostly great

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 12:31, Reply)

until they are in relationships, perhaps
then they turn into mentalists and cunts
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 12:35, Reply)

I guess we can do, aye

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 12:36, Reply)

I didn't know that!
Awww babe. Want me to pay off your loan and we can work out a personal repayment plan between the two of us?
( djtrialprice, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:29, Reply)

It's only money
At the risk of sounding emo it's been worth every penny. If you see that money as me purchasing my sanity and self-respect and meeting lovely people and being able to take the bins out on my own, have male friends, wear nice clothes, then it's been a bargain.

EDIT: and I know all about your 'personal repayment plans' ;)
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:32, Reply)

I'll let you keep all of those things you listed
apart from your sanity.
You're gonna go to Stratheden ha-ha :D
( djtrialprice, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:37, Reply)

You take my sanity in a nice way
I'll stop croissanting now
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:40, Reply)

sanity arse
croissanting foamin' at gash
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:45, Reply)

Giggity ;)

( djtrialprice, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:47, Reply)

Cheers Lab
I have trouble expressing myself sometimes.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:48, Reply)

You're welcome love

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:54, Reply)

purchasing your sanity in installments?
I take it you've got quite a bit left to go then....hehe
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:42, Reply)

Still about 73% left to buy back, so yes!

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:43, Reply)

so you can just about make a cup of tea
but only when the voices tell you
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:45, Reply)

No, only when dj shouts "Tea!"

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:49, Reply)

Might be pushing it at ten grand
But I have often gone with the motto of
"If you lend someone a fiver and never see them again, it was a worthwhile investment."
(LongJohnBaldry, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:30, Reply)

Hear hear!

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:32, Reply)

ditto......

(Purpledoris I've got afeckin' job, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 11:34, Reply)