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rob, Sun 1 Apr 2001, 1:00)
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I suggest you sack your friends and get BGB as bridesmaid.Best friends do not give ultimatums.
Stop being a doormat and tell her SHE ruined YOUR night and if anyone should be getting the ultimatum it should be her.
She's damned lucky you aren't a real B3tan (you are far too nice) as she would have been cunted in the fuck by now.
(, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 8:59, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)
I am a bridesmaid : )I couldn't make it to the hen do though.
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girlinthehole, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:00,
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I'm so tempted to do thatOur conversation yesterday went like this:
She says sorry for not having prepared anything but it was because: 1. She's like that and nobody told her she had to do it (then I remind her that I know her and I did tell her, and other friends did too), but still, not her fault, she's like that.
2. She wouldn't want to prepare anything for me because I'm bossy and get upset when people don't do exactly as I want, and she didn't want to argue with me.
So she said, "I'm sorry about that, now you can choose to forget everything or we're done"
I'm going to the meeting. I need an evening of kick boxing or something like that.
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That is not a nice way for a friend to behave.I would seriously think about your friendship with her but wait till after the wedding.
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girlinthehole, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:05,
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How about 'I will forgive you, I'm just not ready to yet.If that's not good enough, fuck right off.'
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Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:06,
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How about:I would beg for forgivness, but you are just not worth it.
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Bartleby A dead man on vacation, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:08,
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How about you punch her in the tits and when she says 'What was that for?'say 'I can't help it, I'm like that.'
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Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:12,
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that's not a valid excuse or reasonI hate people who think they can get away with being shitty friends by just saying "Oh you know what I'm like"
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Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:14,
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I bet she's blonde, or the spanish equivalent.(
Bartleby A dead man on vacation, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:16,
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Nah! she's brunette.Seems ok really but probably just makes a crap friend.
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girlinthehole, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:22,
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I have a crappy friend like thatshe's just moved to a different city and has told about 3 people.
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Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:25,
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"I'm lazy and don't care about other people"is not a defence against a charge of being lazy and not caring about other people.
Or so I'm often told.
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The Light in Chains don't touch the Pope's boner, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:16,
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Because you're like that.(
Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:26,
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Only one way to go forwards as far as I can see it.You have a post-wedding hen do, with coke and hookers and blackjack. If you fancy, I can set this up, but I can't promise you I won't double-dip by being the organizer _and_ the hooker _and_ the dealer (both blackjack and coke).
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G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩€, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:28,
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That is fucking dreadfulI guess the answer is 'we're done', then. Friends just don't behave like that. Promote BGB and tell your rubbish friend to fuck off and you don't want her at your wedding.
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Spot on right here.(
Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Tue 19 Oct 2010, 9:50,
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