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Either generally or a specific moment.
It's about time we had a positive thread.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 9:52, 121 replies, latest was 15 years ago)
I don't think I've ever been The Happiest Ever, although I've had very enjoyable experiences.
One of my favourite memories was being in a hotel in Hong Kong and waking up thinking it was day because of all the noise, but it was 4am and the markets were still going just as strong as if it had been 4 in the afternoon. It was pretty cool watching everyone bustling around. Other people usually write about how they were on top of a mountain or whatever and it was all tranquil and serene, but I love cities.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 9:58, Reply)
I don't think I have a happiest moment ever, but if I had to choose one, it'd be the first time I slept with Mark. Nothing happened, as we both had partners, but both of us were working in Brussels and had a horrible cold (hi called his man flu), and I couldn't bear sleeping on my own again, in that cold hotel, so he let me sleep with him. I spent the night hugging him and feeling super happy, but I didn't sleep much. I was crap next morning.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:07, Reply)
You've been in Hong Kong? I thought you'd never gone out of the UK, for the way you talk about never going visiting places. HK is quite far away. I loved the place, specially the little tiny islands, as busy as the main one, but in the middle of the jungle!
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:08, Reply)
I just haven't travelled much around England, hence my London virginity being broken on Friday!
I went to Hong Kong a year before it was handed back to China, it was an amazing place, really interesting.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:12, Reply)
Details please! I'm so jealous of people who live in exotic places.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:25, Reply)
Lived in Happy Valley, worked in Times Square. Spent a lot of time in Shanghai and Shenzen with work. Used to love going to Lamma island on a Sunday to relax and Friday nights in Lan Kwoi Fong.
It's expensive there but I was lucky not to pay tax as an ex-pat and my company paid for the flat, maid, driver etc.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:28, Reply)
I'd love to do something like that, but my skills aren't really in demand anywhere else!
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:31, Reply)
First time there I went for a drink in Felix at the Peninsula. Sounds odd but the toilets are what I remember most about the place. The urinal was set into the window so you had the feeling of peeing on Hong Kong from a very great height.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:40, Reply)
They were designed by Phillipe Starck, who's doing the interior design for the Virgin Space Station.
I'm excited because I've learned something from my studies.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:49, Reply)
56th floor, with amazing views of the harbour.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:50, Reply)
I've been mistaken for a long time.
I'd love to live in HK, we tried to find a job there, but things are not very good at the moment, Chinesse people are happy with salaries much lower than ours, and we can't speak Chinesse. Nobody replied to our emails. :(
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:22, Reply)
Apartments are very expensive. Live on HK rather than Kowloon. I lived in Happy Valley which I really liked, however the mid levels and Stanley are nice too. Avoid living in Wanchai.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:25, Reply)
I still need to find a job there before I start thinking where to live.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:32, Reply)
I am sure there are specialist recruitment companies in the UK that handle jobs in Asia.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:34, Reply)
We've been told that with the crisis as it is there's no way they'll be paying European salaries to work there; and even if we go for a good cut, they'd probably won't pay for flat and expenses either. We've been recommended to keep our jobs here and wait a year or so and then try again. In the meantime we're learning Mandarin (I know they do Cantonese, but we don't mind working anywhere in China, so Mandarin seems better)
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I'm not up to 12h/day, 6day/week working time.
Mark was working there for a while too, and it was very "funny". They are very misoginist (?) and don't accept women can work like man. He was there with a female collegue; Mark was doing one bit of the job and she was doing the other. When she'd send documents for the client to review, they'd come back with the comments to Mark, and tried for him to explain what it meant, ignoring the woman completely. Same for team buildings and going out.
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I'd always wanted to visit Japan, but that was mainly because I heard that they have gin and tonic vending machines.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:40, Reply)
I know a few people who've gone there teaching English and some who've gone there on fellowships to do research and none of them really had difficulties with language. Although as Aberaccion said, in business they are extremely sensitive to hierarchy and the highest position Japanese women usually attain is either an air hostess or an office lady (administrator).
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:49, Reply)
The hustle and the bustle is worth all the fuss(le)
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:18, Reply)
Yeah I love that too, it makes me feel like Annie when she arrives in the city, looking up at all the buildings and being dead excited. I love walking through the city at night when everyone's in restaurants and bars and stuff and there's loads going on.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:19, Reply)
I might end up doing that holding hands and skipping around dance with you.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:27, Reply)
I'm gutted I'm not going to meet you too. And there are other fantabulous b3tans I want to meet, and ones I've not seen in a while and would love to see. I'm leaving the bashing to djtp though.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 11:03, Reply)
Spray him with your perfume so you can be there in spirit.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 11:07, Reply)
Spent every weekend off my tits on ecstasy and other stuff. Didn't have a proper job and lived from week to week but I didn't have a care in the world.
Eventually I got my shit together though.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:01, Reply)
...who describes us as 'Ibiza Dads'.
Who'd have thought it would turn out like this.
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Totally big and clever - and everyone is doing it. You should try it. Start out on something easy like a French Fancy and if you are not enjoying yourself have a Caramel Slice to help you come down.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:15, Reply)
Come see me, I'm sure we can 'work someting out'.
*winks*
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:23, Reply)
and then it'll be downhill from there.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:26, Reply)
Now - how about a Lady Finger?
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:31, Reply)
I know that much.
I'd been acquaintances with a girl for years, we'd never got on that well, but I got on with her friends, and vice versa.
Then, over about 6 months of texting, phoning and emailing we developed rather deep feelings for each other. She lived in Southport, while I lived in Congleton, it wasn't easy. It was nothing official, but still felt like it.
I had a week booked off work, where I would be travelling up to see my old friends, and would be only a bus ride away from Southport, so I decided to make plans to see her. She sounded as excited as I was, and so we agreed on a date.
More than a little bit nervous, I got on the bus, and travelled to see a girl I hadn't seen in the flesh for over a year. When I got to her house, I was directed to the top floor, where I found her sat on her bed, gently dozing. I lay next to her, and kissed her gently on the cheek, waking her up. That was at 10am.
We didn't leave that bed until 8pm. We spent a few hours having the sort of fun you'd expect, but the rest of the time we just lay cuddled into one another, feeling the others skin pressed up against us.
I ended up staying the night, and we did the same.
When I left the next day, I promised I'd see her again in a month or so, as we began to make arrangements to go away for a weekend together. That was the last time I saw her.
About 2 weeks later, a girl I lived near (who I'd been chatting to for a while) admitted she fancied me, and asked if I liked her back. I admitted I did, and she proceeded to ask me out.
Blah blah, long story short, I called off everything with the girl from Southport. I have no regrets for choosing the congleton girl, I had two wonderful years with her. But I still feel like a bit of a tool when I think about how I let Southport girl down.
But I still look back on that day with happiness, and always will.
TL;DR - Spent the day in bed with a girl
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I was 23/24, I was diving, I was getting laid and I was finally earning a respectable wage.
Now I just work and pay bills and stuff.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:06, Reply)
was that your job? If so, why the hell did you switch to accountancy?!
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:22, Reply)
I dived the south coast of England, the Red Sea twice and the Galapagos Islands.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:54, Reply)
So some time before that, I guess.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:08, Reply)
It was around that time that I realised my PhD was depressing and shit.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:13, Reply)
But you'll be happy one day, when it's finished and you get an awsome job.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:23, Reply)
I'm fairly sure that the only thing that stopped me quitting was that the recession began a little while after that summer and so there were no jobs available. Not exactly a great source of motivation when you've got five months left to finish.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:19, Reply)
and at the end of it you'll be Dr Crow, that alone is worth it.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:23, Reply)
after a year and a half of almost killing myself. Now I'm happy I didn't, as they've found me this other job which I love, and I can probably move to London to work with them.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:24, Reply)
He's done most of the interesting stuff (his is in proper science with labs, white coats and liquid nitrogen) and now just needs to get it written up, but he's never really had any training in the art of scientific writing (as it were).
So he's sat with not too long to go, a massive pile of papers all of which he thinks he's got to refer to, and a considerable helping of The Fear that he doesn't know anywhere near enough, and hasn't made enough progress. All this despite good experimental work and a published paper or two.
Perversely, that's pretty much exactly where you need to be though. It's the folks who reckon they know the lot and think that their PhD is going to change the world that are in for a terrible shock ...
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:33, Reply)
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:35, Reply)
... as opposed to mine which was ostensibly computery but ended up as slightly glorified social science, sort of. Not wishing to offend anyone, like ...
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is awesome stuff. I've used it for all sorts of extra-curricular purposes in the past.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 11:02, Reply)
involving taking it into his throat and doing an enormous burp. One night it went wrong and he swallowed it. Hospitalarity ensued.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 11:06, Reply)
he once made ice cream with liquid nitrogen, it was pretty impressive.
I quite enjoyed that show, he also created a mousetrap that sets fire to the mouse and he microwaved a melon.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 11:08, Reply)
Going to propose in a few weeks (she's already said she will say yes)
Planning to try for kids next year
Always wanted to run my own business which I now do (although cashflow is fucking stressful)
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we probably have plentiful mutual friends. My profile pic is currently me up a pole as well so it's hard to miss.
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When my kids were born. Truly amazing feelings!
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Being at the V festival with a load of mates, pissed and stoned as a fart, sitting aournd the tents at about 4am. Excellent fun, haven't laughed so much since
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:12, Reply)
My happiness levels don't really fluctuate at all. Is stay at the same sarcy grumpy level.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:20, Reply)
And no, that in no way makes me feel positive.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:26, Reply)
"22nd October 2010" and we'll all go "FUCK YEAH"
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:29, Reply)
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:36, Reply)
Stick some lemsip in your whiskey and woman the fuck up.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:37, Reply)
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I didn't really want children until I reached thirty, and before having them, Disneyworld would not have made my list of top 10000 places to visit.
We don't earn a lot and it was a big decision to go. With there being nearly 8 years between our two girls, there was a limited time frame when the younger would be able to cope with long days round the parks, and it still have appeal to the older one.
Our flight there was diverted upto Atlanta due to a hurricane and we spent a lot of time intially sat on the plane, then in the airport. We eventually arruved at Disneyland around 10pm on what should have been day two of the holiday to be told that they'd cancelled our room as we hadn't let them know about the delay. We eventually got a room around 11pm. However witnessing the above as my daughter hugged Tigger (and crucially to her it WAS Tigger not some bloke in a suit) made me feel really proud that we'd been able to give her that moment.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:53, Reply)
I think the kids will actually pop with happiness!
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 10:57, Reply)
And then we sat down to ostensibly watch a film together and put on one of the Disneyworld promotional DVDs After which we just said "That's where we'll be this time next week" The youngest ran up stairs and put her favourite bear and a pair of shorts in her little wheeled case.
Of course it is all about getting your money from you and it would be easy to go around being cynical about the overpriced drinks etc, but it's worth it.
I hope you all have a great time.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 11:10, Reply)
I think it might be a good idea to keep it from them until very near the time!
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 11:15, Reply)
That was my favourite holiday for the sheer awesomeness. I loved the Epcot Centre and Seaworld just as much as the actual park. And there were tons of simulators and shows for people who don't like rides, it was just fantastic.
(, Wed 20 Oct 2010, 11:09, Reply)
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