rough sex..
My biggest sexual regret is happening right now, through one thing and another, sexual experimentation and such, I have discovered that my current squeeze is into a bit of bondage and rough sex. Which is really disconcerting, as she left a violent husband a couple of years ago.
I hated it, she got off with it... I'm in a huge quandry as she is wonderful in all other respects.
(lordy lordy, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 8:07, 20 replies)

Just wait for the sea change.
I had an ex who was really into the whole shebang - ropes, ball gags, blindfolds, handcuffs, all that -, which was never one of my fantasies and didn't really do anything for me when we started, but as time went on the appeal for me became seeing how much it got her off.
( .Yeti. El amor en los tiempos del cólera, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 8:43, closed)

Man up.
Or put on a maid's dress and swish around, Jessie.
(SSSSSSSSSS, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 8:48, closed)

This.

( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 9:19, closed)

Problem with this is that it
neutralises every day actions.

See, if my Mrs burns the tea or forgets to buy the lager, I give her a bit of a kicking.

The result is that she scuttles off and sorts out whatever she mucked up. Yours will have a squirting orgasm.

Defeats the object - you'd have to go and kill her parents or something to make your point.
(username failed moderation, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 9:14, closed)

This.
It's like training a fucked up horse.
She'll never learn to cook.
(SSSSSSSSSS, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 9:21, closed)

Look mate, none of us liked the strapon at first. Main thing is to relax, dont fight it, and use lots of lube. As a beginner, push back into her instead of her thrusting into you. Do it doggy wwith your ass up high in the air first for a bit so gravity drags your bowels etc out of the way. Sitting on top first up may not work for you. You'll be fine though. Its all good. Please post pics.
( enoughblueskyforsailorstrousers, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 9:31, closed)

You could always be in a relationship with her, but both have sex with other people?
A friend of mine was in a similar position and it worked for him. It involves not being jealous about non-monogamy though, which isn't something everyone can cope with.
(IHateSprouts is baking a huge pie shaped like an enormous pie, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 9:35, closed)

No woman is that interesting.

(SSSSSSSSSS, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 10:23, closed)

Her having been in a violent relationship before doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with her sexual kinks
In fact I'd say it's very unlikely. Lots of women (and men for that matter) are into such things regardless of whether they’ve had nice or nasty boyfriends in the past. Chances are she has always been this way. Stop being a pussy, knock back a few brews and smash the shit out of her :P
(TheManWithThePlan cussed your mum on, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 9:56, closed)

As a doctor
I prescribe you taking two teaspoons of cement and hardening the fuck up.

Her kinks almost certainly have fuck all to do with her past. Now, it puts the lotion on its body or it gets the hose.
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 10:13, closed)

^^With a side order of this^^

( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 16:03, closed)

^^ Closet Gay ^^

( The Mock Turtle ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 11:14, closed)

Try and meet her in the middle somewhere.
She's not going to change and neither are you so if everything else is hunky dory then talk about it and what you're both willing to do or leave out.
( girlinthehole, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 12:26, closed)

^^The next Dear Deirdre^^

( The Mock Turtle ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 13:50, closed)

Rough sex is ace. I'd hate for the lady to do without.

( girlinthehole, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 14:52, closed)

Tell that to talk,they love a bit of surprise sex.

( The Mock Turtle ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 15:20, closed)

I'd rather not.

( girlinthehole, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 15:29, closed)

Fair point.

( The Mock Turtle ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 15:44, closed)

punch her in the cunt

(TheManWithThePlan cussed your mum on, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 12:40, closed)

I love the contrast
Between this post and the one above it.
( MatJ LOOK, Wed 14 Dec 2011, 14:20, closed)