He's asked her if she wants to go to the cinema. It's not a contract for sex.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:44, archived)
people keep accusing me of being like you again.
I take is as a compliment.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:49, archived)
However, I have to say I prefer Wormulus, as his colouring is natural and not applied with a trowel.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:51, archived)
Fling her cheating arse out onto the pavement
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:51, archived)
Sorry she too fat for you to do that:)
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:53, archived)
I usually make them sign a contract saying
"If you accept this ticket you will be recieving my penis with the next 28 days"
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:46, archived)
but the basic unspoken subtext is "I'm not telling him OUTRIGHT that I'm not in the slightest bit interested in him as anything other than a friend, because if I do that, he won't pay for my ticket as he's clinging onto the hope that at some point in the future I may let him stick his winky in me"
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:47, archived)
for instance, where do you decide that he's buying her, rather than her selling herself?
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:54, archived)
The implication that going to the cinema is an agreement to mutual molestation is exactly what I'm deliberately ignoring. Because it's quite, quite shitty.
She gets to watch a film, he pays nothing more than he's offered, and if he's expected that implication to be true, he has a chance of learning a lesson into the bargain.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:57, archived)
That he would have been better off inviting some cheap tart who did put out for cinema tickets.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 12:59, archived)
But there's such a thing as the benefit of the doubt.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 13:02, archived)
It's perfectly normal courting procedure. Whether you personally think it's right and proper or not is completely irrelevant.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 13:02, archived)
And it's a normality that is reflected in the original post, otherwise she wouldn't have asked nor made the edit concerning morals when pretty much everyone replied with that version of normality in mind.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 13:07, archived)
It's courting procedure.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 13:04, archived)
I think you've missed the relevant point (which was, being fair, hidden under LOLb3tashaggingrubbish). I'm sure he's not expecting to fuck her tonight, only that she might be interested in her romantically.
the point being: He's asked her out on what he assumes is a date. If she goes, and goes without making it clear that it's not, then she's misleading him. the fact that he's paying is neither here nor there, except that she's taking advantage of his unreciprocated feelings to get a free cinema ticket
I don't know what form of logic you're using here to suggest that he needs to "learn a lesson" but the only person behaving a little badly here is her.
(, Wed 27 Aug 2008, 13:03, archived)