


That reminds me I shall have to set my alan key to stun as I'll be having an IKEA delivery in the next hour or so.
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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 13:26,
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I worked for them for years. I don't remember a delivery ever taking place as it should...
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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 13:34,
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But for some reason IKEA are having it delivered through DHL.
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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 14:01,
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to be honest I find it offensive - I have expressed this so many time now you'd think people would lay off.
But thanks for the the compliment prior to the sir bit ;)
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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 13:36,
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But thanks for the the compliment prior to the sir bit ;)

I'm not wishing to be a mardy cow about it - it's just that it something that I find diffcult to deal with - especially as I'm a female busdriver and it's so hilarious for all the sexist bastards in Sheffield to say "Thanks Mate!" "Thanks Pal!" as they leave my bus - if I was allowed I followed them off and kick them in the balls - if they had any ;) And before anybody jumps to any conclusion it happens to all us female busdrivers not just me.
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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 13:47,
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I certainly wouldn't assume anyone using them to a girl was having a dig in some way.
Perhaps it is different in your part of the world. Or perhaps the people who use your bus are arseholes.
Q: Obviously the ideal is "neither", but out of "mate" and "dearie", which would least annoy you?
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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 13:50,
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Perhaps it is different in your part of the world. Or perhaps the people who use your bus are arseholes.
Q: Obviously the ideal is "neither", but out of "mate" and "dearie", which would least annoy you?

Mate and Pal are definitely not generic terms that can be applied to both sexes - sorry
As a choice to what to be called I'm not all that bothered - a simple 'Thanks' is enough and if they have nothing good to say to me then nothing would be better than Mate or Pal - BTW when I say they call me Mate or Pal they spit the words at me it isn't just a general "Thanks, Mate" because they haven't really taken any notice of the driver.
**EDIT: Sorry for the rant I hope you all don't think I'm totally neurotic and paranoid. I probably need more sleep and beer.

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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 13:52,
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As a choice to what to be called I'm not all that bothered - a simple 'Thanks' is enough and if they have nothing good to say to me then nothing would be better than Mate or Pal - BTW when I say they call me Mate or Pal they spit the words at me it isn't just a general "Thanks, Mate" because they haven't really taken any notice of the driver.
**EDIT: Sorry for the rant I hope you all don't think I'm totally neurotic and paranoid. I probably need more sleep and beer.


Even little old ladies - bit weird I thought. I think he was just on autopilot.
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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 13:52,
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I know I work with a lot of them.
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Tue 27 Jan 2009, 13:52,
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