i do understand the theory of the whole endorphins thing but...
honestly - i dont get masochism. i was just snacking on a bowl of rice crispies when a dry un-snapped, crackled or popped one just latched itself under my tongue and started to pinch the flesh. ouch!

watchstrap pinched a wrist hair? OUCH! that's enough for me.

why the fuck anyone would want stuff clamped onto their bits to or be battered on the buttocks is well beyond me. you stumble upon sites like kink.com and its like - surely that really really hurts!

touch me, stroke me, caress me. yes i will spank you a little, yes you may rake your nails over my nuts - ok but go easy woman!

but even mild pain - no thanks

and why the shuddering fuck can a woman not give you a bit of a massage without seeking a pimple to squeeze.

FUCK OFF!!!
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 3:41, 7 replies)

On pimples
We're monkeys, for fucks sake, that's why...
(TDub Nunc id vides, nunc ne vides on, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 5:05, closed)

as a self proclaimed fetish expert...
.. when you clamp something to your nipple or wherever. At first the pain is a sharp nasty "OWCH!" but it dulls down into an aching pain in which you mentally submit yourself to.

An adult male is in control of his life, day in day out and takes responsibility for everything. The fetish gives him a break from that control, and takes the pain. The person who can take the pain away is the girl. She is under his control.

Its hard to explain really what its all about.. But as with all fetishes... What repulses someone, will give someone else a hell of a blast.
(Miggyman, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 10:05, closed)

^
truth
(XmanX captain upsetter hahahahaha, Sun 25 Oct 2009, 5:39, closed)

"She is under his control"
Isn't that what they call "topping from the bottom"? I'd say surrendering that control to her and enduring her desires is the key - He suffers because she wants it. What should a good sub strive to do? Push his boundaries beyond his perceived limits for Her satisfaction, not his own.

Ah fuck it, you are dead on, it's hard to explain all this stuff, I say don't analyse it, just enjoy!

(And anyway when she takes the clamp off, it hurts a hell of a lot more than when it went on!)
(Rsoles, Mon 26 Oct 2009, 20:05, closed)

maybe
it's biological? Given how weird nerves are, there could be crossed wires associating pain with pleasure. It happens with other sensations. But yeah, just not getting the attraction to pain otherwise.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 18:19, closed)

Crikey..
An answer to both this week and last weeks QOTW..

*klik*
(danniekavanagh did nothing constructive on, Sun 25 Oct 2009, 19:49, closed)

Zit squeezing
Well there's an art to that!
(Sir Tainley Barking Ezekiel 23:20, Sun 25 Oct 2009, 20:26, closed)