kissing is SO important
i have no idea how many guys i've kissed, it'll be well over 400 though (i'm v v fussy about shagging, kissing - not so much!). and maybe 99% of them went straight in for the hard core snogging, no sexy sensual pre-lims. this can be ok, but it's not pant-melting stuff.

the current bloke looks at me and leans in and brushes his lips and stubble against my mouth and neck and rests his forehead or cheek against mine until every cell in my body is screaming KISS ME! he is in a different league to every other man i've ever kissed, i think. he should give lessons. i am not going to suggest this to him, however.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:50, 4 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

You're right on that one.
Those men who go straight for it like they're trying to descale your tonsils. Ugh.
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:52, Reply)

Has he popped a finger up your bum yet?

( Light In Chains maker of the ikea sofa, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:52, Reply)

not for the want of trying
what is it with you men and anal? it will not feel good for me. it's the sort of thing i'd do for a 60th wedding anniversary treat, and not a minute before.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:54, Reply)

It's a natural form of contraception and nothing to be frightened of

( Light In Chains maker of the ikea sofa, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:56, Reply)

it's how lawyers are conceived isn't it?
oh. damn.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:57, Reply)

:(

( Light In Chains maker of the ikea sofa, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:58, Reply)

i will add your comments into the mix
when he is next trying to persuade me that i will "love it".
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:01, Reply)

Depends how he's hung, I suppose
you don't want to break your ringpiece in with Godzilla.
(berk, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:57, Reply)

perfect size
not too painfully big, not too laughably small!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:02, Reply)

Yes, but if he were to put it in yer bum...
you might think otherwise. This may have been a deciding factor for me...
(berk, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:05, Reply)

for me there is only one factor
IT'S JUST NOT SEXY

and i am sure as fuck not sucking it when it's been up there. and if you think differently, stick my vibe up your own arsehole and suck it clean. don't fancy that?

i thought not.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:06, Reply)

Kroney does

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:09, Reply)

Ah no, for sure
there has to be a shower in between that and the next round, so to speak.
(berk, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:10, Reply)

Depends on the girl
My ex said she preferred it. Different stroke for different folks I guess.

Maybe she was called Brian and was on her way to a fancy dress party.
( Peej, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:07, Reply)

A girl once did that to a guy I know. He's been called Digit ever since.
More updates as they happen.
( Kroney, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:54, Reply)

That sounds suspiciously like 'lad' banter

( Light In Chains maker of the ikea sofa, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:57, Reply)

haha!

( girlinthehole, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:54, Reply)

My wife doesn't really like to be kissed
Its a shame cos I love kissing. Oh and for her kissing or cuddling during or after sex is a big no-no.
( Peej, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:55, Reply)

I don't know how to break this to you
but your wife may well be a man. (the two children notwithstanding)
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:56, Reply)

Bollocks
You find me a man with as softer beard as her!
( Peej, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:59, Reply)

Your wife is weird, or a prossie, they aren't into kissing and cuddling either

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 15:59, Reply)

She's not the first woman I've been with that didn't want to kiss during
Before is fine but some women prefer the sex part to be less affectionate and a bit more animal
( Peej, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:01, Reply)

aww man, he sounds cool
I've kissed 5 guys ever, though :(. Kissing is awesome
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Mon 11 Jul 2011, 16:04, Reply)