![This is a question](/images/board_posticon.gif)
Are you a QOTWer? Do you want to start a thread that isn't a direct answer to the current QOTW? Then this place, gentle poster, is your friend.
( , Sun 1 Apr 2001, 1:00)
« Go Back | See The Full Thread
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
however much you really like each other, 21 and 29 are v different places in life, and all her mates will be doing things like getting mortgages and up the duff. that's the kind of pressure you're up against, i reckon.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 11:53, 3 replies, latest was 12 years ago)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
As (most) women approach 30, they start wondering about whether the relationship they're in is the one that will last them fpor life. If they don't believe it is, they start panicking about how long it *will* last.
If a woman is interested in babies and security and that shit, she doesn't want to waste a couple of years on a 'fun, but nothing permanent' relationship, then find herself alone and dried up when she's 35.
You might want to ask her how she's feeling and what she's thinking before you launch in with your 'take me back or I'll cut myself' spiel.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 11:59, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
ohgodohgodohgodohgod i'm going to be forty next year.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:04, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
I've met her best friends and we all got on, so with regards to fitting in and not being the weird young guy sticking out that wasn't an issue. The other stuff I agree though. It's not like we were ever gonna be soulmates but we had such a nice time together and made each other smile. If she actually didn't like me as a person, fine. I can't change that. Just feel like I'm in limbo now. I think about things too much.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 11:59, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
she's probably been with him for a while, he's marriagable etc etc.
Cut her loose and get on with girls your own age.
Seriously, Baz. You've got loads of time for this shit. Try to enjoy yourself.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:03, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
Maybe he has returned having changed his mind?
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:05, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
Because you will get hurt by them over and over. You're far more likely to send some excruciating emails if you're pissed.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:06, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
But drinking heavily alone is a terrible idea.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:14, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
he's 'omg attention drinking' mar-fucken-tini at 11.30 on a monday because some girl said no
he needs a couple of pints and a slap
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:16, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
I spent a few days being 'woe is me', then got myself back on my feet. You have to remember Q, we aren't all able to move on from upset as well as you.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:20, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
he just liked some girl who fobbed him off with a fake excuse
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:21, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
But at the same time, the one that gutted me the most is a girl I wasn't with either. However, I found that a good pub session with close mates who kept an eye on me and made sure I didn't attempt to contact her sorted me right out.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:24, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
i here she puts out after 4 spritzers
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:24, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
but this is probably good advice. You're still a young'un, Barry.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:09, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
Women change a lot in those years.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:11, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
he'll get over it in no time and he'll be getting his nuts wet elsewhere before he knows it
STFU OR MUMSNET
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:11, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
I think she has to be honest, needing space is such a cop out.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:10, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
i'm gonna pop round and lend you a fiver, treat yourself to a nice pair of bollocks, at a boy
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:12, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
Assume you're dumped, go out with Newcastle bird.
Somebody on here gave me some great advice which is: Drop all contact, let them know what it'll be like to lose you. If they have strong enough feelings for you, they'll come back. If they don't, you were onto a loser in the first place.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:12, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:13, Reply)
![This is a QotW comment](/images/board_posticon.gif)
Some of whom post on this site.
( , Mon 28 May 2012, 12:16, Reply)
« Go Back | See The Full Thread