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( , Sun 1 Apr 2001, 1:00)
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and I met this gorgeous girl at a Friends party. She was a mutual friend, but up until this point we had never met somehow. So we got chatting, and we had a couple of beers, and turned out she lived near me, so I offered to walk her home. The half hour walk took about 2 hours becuase we were chatting away, and looking at stuff, and it was one of those magical meetings.
So, I got her number, and we got together. Well, from day 1 maybe i shoudl have known better, but no. She had been a bit of tearaway when it came to blokes, the stories of her past exploits shocked me a little, even thought i'd had a few partners, she was all about the random encounters. She had a bloke who worked in London in westminster, that she would go and see just for sex, and the same with a bloke in oxford, but we got on so well, and she was ace and seemed really in to me, and said she'd stop all of that because she was totally in to me.
Well, I took her word for it, and we stayed together for about 4 years. We went on Holidays together, I must have blown every penny i had got from when my grandad died to take us to Venice. At the time, it was perfect, couldn't have been happier. She moved in to my flat for a bit, then off she went to university, and we stayed together. Wehad the odd argument, as she was still friends with this fella she used to bump uglies with in oxford, but every time, she'd talk me down, and I'd agree that i was being paranoid, and that we loved eachother.
She went to Uni, I went to visit on every day off, and it all seemed lke it would be ok. We had plans that i'd get a job down in London when she moved out of Halls, and it would all be blissful. I had already dropped out of Uni at this point, and reall thought i was going to make my life with this girl. She was studying to be a doctor, and I was still working in pubs, and then it all started to sort of fall apart. She got in with her doctor student friends, and i was still a bit of a dirty metaller, and in some ways, i guess we just grew apart, slowly we stopped wanting to do the same stuff, and that was it. She left me, one afternoon in the park, just turned round and said she couldn't be with me, I didn't have a career, I was a bar man, and she was going to be a doctor, and it would never work. I was heartbroken. I loved this girl.
Now, that was hearbreaking enough, but after a couple of months, i got a call from her, she wanted to meet up, catch up, stay friends, all that shit, And i was so toatally in to her still, that i jumped at any chance to see her. I told myself we were just frineds, but i knew deep down was still inlove with her.
Cue 3 or 4 months with me jumping through hoops for her, going to hers, we were sleeping together again, i was a bit depressed still, as i knew she didn't love me, but i loved her, and that was enough, and i had to be with her.
Then she dropped the bomb one night when we were drunk. She thought she's already told me, and that i had got over it, but no, she said Throughout the entire nearly 4 year relationship, she was still down in london, shagging this politician fellow, even sometimes when I was coming down, she'd be late to meet me, as she was in his office getting busy. I exploded, i went crazy, I'd never been more hurt or heartborken, she told me that she never really believed in love, but liked me so much she didn't want me to go, so she kept it from me. I mean, i hadn't thought about this guy in years, and that was it. What i thought was my most important encounter, my first really big love, and bang, it was a bit shit.
( , Thu 11 Oct 2012, 11:33, 8 replies, latest was 13 years ago)

he's just jelly piggy cause he's too scared to post his shit.
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( , Thu 11 Oct 2012, 11:37, Reply)

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! you total fucking idiot! I mean seriously? WTF were you thinking you sodding fool!
Oh man, I'm going to klik diz merely so I can read it over and over again and laugh like a fucking drain about it!!!!
jesus fucking christ, that really is one of the most pathetic love fuck ups I've ever read.
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thankfully i can look back on it now and chuckle about how much of a dick i really was.
( , Thu 11 Oct 2012, 11:44, Reply)

if people want an open relationship, be fucking honest about it. if the partner ain't cool, find someone who is. not fucking rocket science.
( , Thu 11 Oct 2012, 11:46, Reply)

It still knots your stomach and makes you feel sick and betrayed.
You should totes put her name on here so we can all try and find her. That'll teach the bitch.
( , Thu 11 Oct 2012, 11:47, Reply)

we actually went for a drink a few months back, she is a succesful doctor, and she actually apologised for not believing that I could make a career out of pub work.
( , Thu 11 Oct 2012, 11:49, Reply)

so SLUT how's the being a FUCKING DIRTY COW getting on?
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