Advice please - just had a text from someone I've just started seeing.......
"it's just a prolonged panic attack that has kind of become a habit and if i stop worrying about it it will stop. My lungs and heart are fine. phew"

She's just sent a text saying it wasn't meant for me but I'm thinking run away, run away.....

What should I do???
(penrose your dog's got tits, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:22, 25 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

so she suffers from panic attacks
why run away? it's not like she suffers from psychotic incidents.
( Kroney, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:25, Reply)

Let me add a bit more info.....
Her husband's in prison - Fraud but he's "innocent" but she's not going back to him...

She's had a sprained ankle for 7 weeks....

She makes a noise like a guinea pig when we fuck....

Other than that she's totally normal
(penrose your dog's got tits, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:28, Reply)

so she has a bad ex
a bad foot, makes arguably irritating noises during sex and panics? Yeah, abort. Run away. She's going to stab you in your sleep and wear your skin as a cape.
( Kroney, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:38, Reply)

Nah
She'll fashion the flayed skin into a sports-bandage for the sprained ankle.
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:41, Reply)

Ohhh MAN, you should so dump her.
She's a zero, you're a hero, get with the program.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:44, Reply)

what's wrong with suffering from psychotic incidents?

( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:34, Reply)

i tend to find
they pour cold water all over romantic nights in.
( Kroney, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:36, Reply)

nah,
they make for interesting nights in.
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:46, Reply)

Cold water being poured over stuff
Or psychotic episodes?
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:47, Reply)

So let me see if I got this right?
Someone you've had a few dates with sent you a text accidentaly talking about panic attacks? Why are you thinking run away? Everyone has their problems and flaws, and to be honest the occasional panic attack hardly seems that major. You just happened to find out about it accidentaly. I don't honestly think you should leg it if that if that's the only thing making you want to run. You might miss out on something wonderful over something trivial.
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:27, Reply)

Bollocks, I'm flawless.

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:43, Reply)

ummmm....
Then the fact that you're flawless scares people off a relationship as they don't think they're up to living up to such a level of perfection.
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:45, Reply)

BECAUSE ONLY OUR LORD GOD CAN BE PEREFCTION

( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:46, Reply)

So he deliberately made people, animals, trees and stuff a bit shit
so that he'd be the only thing perfect? Arsehole.
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:49, Reply)

Nope, I'm completely flawless, so flawless that I don't even scare people off with my flawlessness.

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:53, Reply)

Start dating Penrose
He'll find something
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:56, Reply)

Pah!
You're just so messy, we can't see your flaws floors.
( thealternativefact, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 18:49, Reply)

*shrugs*
you sound a little picky for someone who's posting about the potential problems in their blossoming relationship on a forum frequented by the dregs and misfits of Internet society.
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:41, Reply)

I knew I was in the wrong place
...
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:41, Reply)

Good point.
Try listing her good points maybe? Not that you have to post em or anything. Just if you start looking for the negatives, chances are you're only going to find negatives.
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 17:42, Reply)

whatever you do don't

Jump out and boo her
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 18:12, Reply)

Maybe it's the fact that she sent it accidentally on purpose
Maybe that's what worries Penrose. But I dunno. We've all done it, especially drunk. "I don't know how to bring this up so I'll send you a text and straight after I'll tell you it wasn't meant for you." Just wait and see for now. A panic attack alone isn't a big deal, is it?
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 19:07, Reply)

the mere fact that you are asking the question
means you should run to the hills
( mictoboy shitting in your cunt since, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 19:18, Reply)

She's probably on another forum right now asking random people if she should stay with you.

( girlinthehole, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 19:39, Reply)

I'd put money on it!

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 14 Jul 2009, 19:54, Reply)