Um....not being rude, but
she didn't think there would be a stripper on your stag night? Last time I got married, I gave him $20 for a lap dance! I figured that one out way before he planned his stag do.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:08, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

She is pretty insecure so worries that I don't fancy her, which is nonsense
We'll get over it, but it's only 2 weeks till the wedding and she had a massive bust up with her mildly evil mother over the weekend as well.
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:09, Reply)

Pre-wedding jitters.
Been there twice. It sucks ass right now, but it will get better. But seriously....every girl should know that their future hubby is gonna have a stripper on his stag do!
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:12, Reply)

Of course, that goes without saying
But he should have been honest and explain before the party, specially if he knows that she's insecure. I think the lie is what upset her more (as long as it was only lap dancing and such, and nothing more than that)
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:17, Reply)

Totally agree.
Hell, my hen night (ooh, see, used the correct English term there....not quite Merkin yet) I told him we were going to see male strippers. Did he like it? No! But he did the same thing (well, female strippers) and so as far as I'm concerned it's quits. Whatever. Traditions have to be upheld!
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:21, Reply)

Good for you
I'm going to see plenty of naked men for mine!
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:34, Reply)

Never would there be more than that, even if I wanted to
I was with her best friend who is like her brother, he and my friends would never ever let me do something like that.
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:21, Reply)

Trust me,
you don't have to justify it to us.

She'll get over it. Just pamper her a bit over the next few days and it will all be ok. Or alternatively, ask her what she got up to on her hen night.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:24, Reply)

I know what she got up to, you'll love this
She had a stripper! But in her mind willies are funny and apart from mine when I turn on the sexy time, not really that sexual. God only knows.

She phoned me straight after he had finished to say how awkward she felt and that she hated it, I should have tried that, but my phone had been confiscated!
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:27, Reply)

I'd rather have a lapdance from a woman
I find male strippers a bit creepy. But then I'm hoping to go to Vegas for mine so I should be able to find something exciting to do!
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:34, Reply)

I almost agree with you
Maybe a mixed lapdance... mmmm... my friends all want naked men.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:37, Reply)

Just saw this after my answer below.
I'll pick you up at the airport! But....if you're gonna be there more than 3 days, then do something other than stay in Vegas. It really does get boring after 3 days.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:40, Reply)

I thought that it probably would
plus I'd run out of money. I think I'd go for a long weekend.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:56, Reply)

Do 10 days.
3 days in Vegas, 3 days in LA (if you're so inclined) and then 3 days in San Francisco. Vegas to LA is a 4 hour drive or a (cheap, too) 45 minute flight. LA to SF is 1 1/2 hours flight. Driving is 4 1/2 hours and 6-7 hours respectively.

And for those trips, it's actually easier to fly than it is to drive, you just miss out on the scenery.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 11:08, Reply)

ooh I quite like the sound of a roadtrip hen party though

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 11:22, Reply)

*sigh* Fine.
Just chip in for the gas (petrol) ;)
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 11:26, Reply)

we can be like Thelma and Louise
only with less cliff diving
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 11:42, Reply)

less more cliff muff
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 11:43, Reply)

For god's sake
Perhaps you should point out to her that some men buy a shag on their stag night. At least you only bought some scenery.
(berk, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:34, Reply)

From a female point of view,
it still wouldn't have worked if you'd tried it. Women are fickle like that. And we can be utter cunts like that.
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:35, Reply)

^^this
Women can have completely double standards at times. When it's pointed out, they'll reply with "Yes, but I'm a woman". That's an explanation, but not an excuse.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:38, Reply)

I agree with this
I'm fully expecting some kind of filthy shenanigans on Wiggy's stag do, he wants to go to Vegas. He knows where the line is between stag stuff and cheating so I'm not concerned.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:32, Reply)

Vegas? Really? Your boy?
The one that wants to live in Canada and has problems to move from England?

Wow, I thought he'd want to go to York or something like that.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:36, Reply)

He likes the idea of having a mad blowout in Vegas
but he's probably more excited by the casinos than the strippers.

I want to go and see Felix Cane, the world champion pole dancer!

I went to a hen party in York a few months ago, it was boring.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:38, Reply)

I've been to two stag do's this year
Both fairly sedate affairs, one was for my tee-total geek friend, and another just wanted a quiet-but-drunken weekend in Ireland with 3 of his friends.
I've never seen a stripper (not counting Burlesque) or had a lapdance, and would undoubtedly feel rather awkward if I ever did.
I'd probably ask them if they'd seen any good films recently.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:42, Reply)

I once discussed cricket with a stripper in Australia, two other strippers and my mate joined in the conversation
it wasn't very erotic
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:55, Reply)

On a VERY geeky mate's stag do,
a stripper feigned interest in Games Workshop for a good half hour. It was amazing.
(wellgroomedwookiee is a filthy-minded hobgoblin, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:57, Reply)

women
always faking it
(bamboozled Can hear you getting fatter, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 11:18, Reply)

Strippers are crap.
I always want sleazy, tattooed rock chicks dancing to ZZ Top, hollywood style, and what you get is orange chavs dancing to fucking Atomic Kitten or some shit.
(wellgroomedwookiee is a filthy-minded hobgoblin, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:56, Reply)

hire the Fuel Girls

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 11:07, Reply)

Honestly,
the majority of men might get a lapdance, but they don't do more than that.
And if he goes to Vegas, just let me know. It's only a 4 hour drive, I can spy on him ;)
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:37, Reply)

haha that would be awesome
"hey honey, I'm having a great time, but I get the feeling I'm being watched..."
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:39, Reply)

"What makes you say that?"
"Well, I'm just at the roulette table and there's this strange woman standing right next to me staring at my face and writing down everything I say..."
(LongJohnBaldry, Tue 29 Jun 2010, 10:43, Reply)