Cunt her in the fuck.
Seriously - Just have a quiet chat with her and ask her if pole-dancing is right for her.
( girlinthehole, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 9:01, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

I thought about that
but then I was worried about singling her out and making her feel bad, I don't want her thinking I don't want her in the class because she's rubbish.

But then I shouldn't worry about making her feel bad as she's quite selfish and doesn't care how she treats other people, she was proper narky with me last night like I'd personally inflicted injury on her. She's on my facebook and she writes things like "didn't have fun in pole class tonight", which I think is a bit insensitive.

EDIT: This is her current status: "has horrible painful bruised legs - i never want to do that again - EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 9:10, Reply)

She sounds like a silly cow.

(Poppet some assembly required., Thu 22 Jul 2010, 9:21, Reply)

yup!
it's like going running and then stopping as soon as soon as you get the tiniest bit out of breath.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 9:23, Reply)

Hmmm well I like Roota's thoughts on it. They sound sensible.
She sounds really attention seeking IMHO. There's no point doing something like poledancing when you know it requires muscle use if you're going to make the instructor feel bad.
on an aside - I've been thinking about picking up dance classes next year. Mainly cos I think it'd be fun to get fit like that.
(Poppet some assembly required., Thu 22 Jul 2010, 9:27, Reply)

It is really good fun
any kind of dance is entertaining, especially stuff like street dance that's rock hard because you get really fit without noticing it. I find the hour flies by and you realise at the end that you're proper knackered but you haven't noticed getting knackered, unlike the gym where it's painfully noticeable.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 9:39, Reply)

See I absolutely Loathe gyms.
All the fit obsessed people seem to be there and I just feel like a loser trying to use the exercise bikes when I fall off them trying to get *on* them in the first place.
I have the worst coordination in the world but I think dancing might improve that!
(Poppet some assembly required., Thu 22 Jul 2010, 9:41, Reply)

Isn't that what you're supposed to do when you go running?

(wellgroomedwookiee is a filthy-minded hobgoblin, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 10:07, Reply)

It's what I'd do

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 10:08, Reply)

No.
You keep going until you drop.
( girlinthehole, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 10:09, Reply)

I mean like after running for a minute and thinking "ooh this is making my heart rate increase, I think I'll stop now"

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 22 Jul 2010, 10:10, Reply)