teh meaning of the word `no`
ok, I accept i`ll get massive pelters for this but...

i just don`t like the "no means no" thing. As a courteous shallow person, when I hear `NO` I always stop and ask if all is ok, and boy has this put a downer on some otherwise remarkably fruity events. I may be shallow, but im also very sensitive about the good ladies` feelings!

Why can`t we have a campaign saying `"Fuck off and stop doing that you massive shit" means no?` ; it would make life easier. I mean jeez, the number of times i`ve had a slap on the head for ruining the moment* is remarkable!

//ok, could shout `red` or some such, but honestly im not such a perv i feel the need to have a colour code during sex.

* well about 4 times, but im hoping to improve on that over the rest of my lifetime :)

/length: above average, apparently, soz.
(hiddenshallows, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 0:05, 10 replies)

any girl who says no and means yes
deserves to have their moment ruined.
(misskitty reeks of sex and turpentine; laudanum afternoons, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 2:49, closed)

absolutely.
"No" is an important word and I want it as a given that if I say "no" or "stop" then the gentleman I am with will at the very least pause in his stride to check the situation.

I have had a couple of encounters where a moan of pleasure has been interpreted as a gasp of pain and proceedings have been abruptly halted, and yes, it's annoying, but to be honest, I'd rather have that than some prat merrily bouncing away without a care in the world while I wonder just how badly my internal organs are bleeding.
( Batsgirl, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 12:22, closed)

Remember the secret code...
'No' means 'yes', and 'yes' means 'anal'.
(powervator and NONE SHALL PASS, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 9:17, closed)

If you are serious
you are a fuckwit.

At what point would you believe the "no"
(hutchers, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 9:44, closed)

I read that as...
"Fuck off and stop doing that massive shit"
(Vice Admiral Sir Charles Cockbrush KCB MBE DSO, who is finding it increasingly difficult to log into b3ta.com wants to duck your aunt and kick your puppy, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 10:47, closed)

Now THAT
would be a moodkiller.

Well, for most people
( uberdeity Wondered why Owen Lars knew of the term "hell" on, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 10:53, closed)

I find that
`"Fuck off and stop doing that you massive shit"

means yes.

But that's why I'm in prison now...
(Fuckarma was masturbating into your handbag, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 11:33, closed)

Have you ever heard
of safewords?
(LickOutTheJamsMotherfuckers!, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 11:46, closed)

.
Chubb?
(Chickenwire social lubricator extraordinaire, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 16:46, closed)

Lemmings!
is my personal favourite...
(Immy The Great gave himself to Jesus, but now Jesus never calls, Wed 1 Oct 2008, 21:46, closed)