This week I shall find out if the letter I wrote my ex was a terrible error of judgement on my part,
or not.

Alt: not bad thank you. Enjoyed the mild weather a lot.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:20, 3 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

Was this your request for overnight access?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:23, Reply)

It has taken a phenomenal amount of restraint and recollection of how sensitive an issue this is to Monty
for me to not strikethrough the above
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:26, Reply)

I wrote a +, then thought better of it

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:27, Reply)

Yes,
and to see my ex's schools research, and to be able to take my child to my mother's 60th birthday lunch in May. All OUTRAGEOUS DEMANDS, I'm sure you agree.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:27, Reply)

You awkward bastard

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:28, Reply)

What are the next steps if she refuses to change her position?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:28, Reply)

Flip her over and grab the lube

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:29, Reply)

*click*

( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:31, Reply)

Well really it's back to court, but I can't afford to do it.
I am basically fucked, here.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:31, Reply)

Are there not any Legal Aid type things available for this?

( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:31, Reply)

I earn too much to qualify.
It's alright though because my ex gets it, being a parasite and all. So that's OK.

:(
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:34, Reply)

I suggest you poison her
some kind of convoluted scheme can't go wrong.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:32, Reply)

Some kind of bizarre incident involving a horse maybe?

( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:32, Reply)

Anyone with half a brain would look at the language used in your letter and assume it was a precursor to legal action
This obviously raises the question of whether a woman who's allowed you to know her biblically has half a brain
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:34, Reply)

I'm hoping she thinks I am preparing to do this
and makes some concessions to avoid it.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:39, Reply)

In the absence of the viability of legal action,
using your mad letter-writing skillZ to make her believe it could be on the cards is an excellent idea.
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:44, Reply)

I'm starting to feel slightly sick in my stomach
that I've started something I cannot finish and this was a terrible mistake - but the only other option I have is simply to carry on getting nowhere and having all my requests denied, so I thought fuck it and crossed my fingers...
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:50, Reply)

A mate of mine was in a similar position to you.
It was awful, everytime he took his ex to court it cost him money he could have spent on his son, especially as she'd refuse to cooperate with what the court had instructed.

She was safe in the knowledge that the court won't take any action against her as if they impose a financial penalty, that'll be robbing the kid of much needed money, and they aren't going to send her down as 'a kid needs a mother'.

Have you tried to speaking to the mother of your ex and seeing if she'll apply any pressure on her daughter?
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:34, Reply)

Her mother is an utter, utter cunt and definitely the parent my ex gets her unpleasantness from.
Her father is a nice, quitely spoken and utterly henpecked man who just wants a quiet life. He'll be of no use but probably sympathises.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:36, Reply)

interesting to hear what happens with the letter.
the weather certainly helps the mood.

Surfing yesterday in the sun was absolutely splendid. Despite still needing to wear a thick wetsuit, boots, gloves and very nearly a hood as well, it was still like a taste of summer.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:25, Reply)

I wore shorts all weekend
I was in a great mood! Apart from certain times in the club on Friday night.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:26, Reply)

Were they the times when I was licking your face?

(Bazongaloid, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:29, Reply)

They were among them, yes.
Does your wife still have those pictures?
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:31, Reply)

I feel noticably cheerier for a bit of sun.
I will post a summary of the reply I get when it arrives, if you like.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:28, Reply)

A good friendf of mine has a beautiful 2 year old girl
The father is an aggressive, violent, lazy and selfish bastard who pays no maintenance what so ever.

He is not named on the birth certificate so has no legal obligation to do so, however the little girl wants to see her Dad so dickhead can't be cut out of their lives entirely. It's the worst of both worlds in a way.
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 28 Mar 2011, 11:38, Reply)