Balls to staying skinny, See above.
Nowt sexier than confidence.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:40, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

I'm not confident- eating too much made it worse.
I'm having a makeover inside and out at the mo. Dunno if I should chop all my hair off (it's quite damaged from bleach, and maybe I'll get my curls back)

I had metal put in my face today. OMG SO ALTERNATIVE
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:44, Reply)

Get confident before you get skinny.
and you'll decide not to bother.
By the way, I'm not an idiot, I'm not suggesting you get obese. That's taking the piss.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:50, Reply)

I think I might do both in tandem.
Besides, I'm never going to be skinny again- I wasn't even that skinny to start off with, always had tits and hips. Going to aim for a size 10- 2 dress sizes is achievable.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:51, Reply)

That's what fat people say to kid themselves.
*kisses washboard stomach*
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:45, Reply)

And nothing more annoying than A FAT GIRL WITH BALLS OF PERSONALITY
/Wormulus' epic flounce
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:45, Reply)

I know actual fat birds who are sexy bitches.
Anyone, fat or thin, who has no confidence, is not a sexy bitch.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:51, Reply)

I know a couple of girls I've not realised are "fat" because I've been distracted by how pretty they are
or how confident they are.

I guess I'm not really like that though.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:52, Reply)

it really does depend
I have a size 16 friend who is pretty but not epically so. Yet she has so much confidence it is unbelievable and continually has a boyfriend
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:54, Reply)

I've not had a boyfriend while I've been a size 14.
Had one that fucked me over at size 12, and had one constantly when I was 8-10.

SOMETHING'S TELLING ME SOMETHING
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:56, Reply)

it's telling you
that while you feel fat you feel unconfident. Nothing to do with size just confidence

Fuck I've had a lot to drink. It's bollocks. I want to be thin as well
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:58, Reply)

I need to start the gym.
Plus- you still considering something next weekend? I'm more than happy to come down :)
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:03, Reply)

I worked with a girl for 9 years before I realised that she's massive.
And that was because I saw her from far away from behind.
She's gooorgeous and confident and wears shit that suits her.
It means fuck all, but in my moments of weakeness I long to be a size 8 again. Bullshit. When I was a size 6/8 I looked like a Ukrainian crack whore.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:56, Reply)

I try to dress to my shape
I do actually like my basic shape. I just need to do some work on it.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:58, Reply)

Ditto

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:59, Reply)

it does make a huge difference
there is a tipping point for most girls before and after which her sex-appeal to most men drops off dramatically - some of my friends swear this is accurate to the pound!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:59, Reply)

and even then it varies
though as one person told me I looked too clever to be pretty
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:01, Reply)

the clever thing... don't get me started on that hobbyhorse!!
all men say they want intelligent girlfriends. then when they find out you are actually quite bright (and esp if you earn more than they do), an awful lot of them actually don't like it. they want girls who are ALMOST as bright as they are, it turns out, not possibly brighter!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:08, Reply)

I've found this :(
they need someone to listen, not someone to talk to.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:10, Reply)

yup
and their fragile little egos get dented easily too!!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:12, Reply)

What mugs, getting a suga-mama would be awesome.
Right, I'm off to work, L8taz potatoes.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 7:19, Reply)

Seriously, any bloke that won't go with you on just the basis that you're a bit large... ain't worth the time of day.
The only reason a bloke should care about a girl's size is when eaither she makes an issue out of it due to looks, or because her health is in a serious bad way.

I've been with some pretty big girls, and to tell you the truth, I didn't even notice and thought mates were talking bull.

Gimmi a big girl, or small girl, or whatever size... with a decent personailty, over a girl who's textbook good looking* and is dim or dull... any day of the week.

And most my male mates are no different when it comes to the truth, although a lot of them talk about not going with a girl 'cus of size, it's all bull.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 7:16, Reply)

It's all subjective init
Can have a thin, attractive doris with zilch personality/intelligence; and that's a load of pony. Then a big lass (not too big mind, urgh) who's class and a right laugh, and thus muchos attractive. Or a stunning thin bird who's ace all round and fun to be with. Or a fat mess who's a right cunt 24/7 who you want to avoid at all costs.

Utter cliché but everyone and every situation is different. Except me who's handsome with a great taste in threads and super funny.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:59, Reply)

'I like this'

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:00, Reply)

Oh man, I'm certainly a fat mess, and am often referred to as such.
I'm aiming to move from being a fat mess to a fat laugh to a curvy laugh.

And stop drinking so fucking much when I do drink.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:01, Reply)

Alcohol is a sin. Except Duvel.
If you wanna lose weight, just walk everywhere and stop drinking regularly. I weighed thirten stone at the last bash, I'm now nearly eleven. Piece of piss, and I do zero exercise besides making sure I walk an hour every day.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:06, Reply)

I drink about 3-4 times a month.
But when I do it'll be to excess. I do walk quite a lot. I would walk to uni but I don't quite fancy the Walworth Road. Still. Might still be as quick as the bus.

I think diet's the main thing with me. As in, I don't have one, I don't eat regularly or well at all.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:09, Reply)

I used to be ridiculously bad with food. Now I don't eat anything without checking calories first. Quite sad really.
I suppose it's different for doris', but I try and eat five meals a day all around 300 calories. Whilst getting through about five apples and ten mugs of green tea. Once you get into it it's a piece of piss.

EDIT - Innocent veg pots are absolutely class for this, I could happily live off them for the rest of my days. 300 calories a go, three of your five veg a day and they just taste like vegetable curries. They're £3.50 each though (I just nick them).
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:13, Reply)

Diet coke
and Special K cereal bars here. Then three evenings a week I have a dinner or so
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:16, Reply)

I'm trying to work out if I'd suit the 2 small meals 1 large or the 5 small meals approach
I might get back into my black tea. I like my black tea. I know it's not as good as the green stuff, but I may have to draw the line somewhere.

I'll try it out though. Cheers.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:16, Reply)

the diet link
that crackhouseceilidhband posted looked like it could work. The problem with small meals is that you're tempted to overeat at them
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:18, Reply)

What was the link?

( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:18, Reply)

here you go
www.nosdiet.com/
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:24, Reply)

they are amazing
but bastard tesco has them at half price at the moment, so they are always always always sold out!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:22, Reply)

oooohohooooh
I might order some online
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:23, Reply)

the current seasonal one
bombay curry is AMAZING. although if you like spicy food you will need to add a bit of spice; it's pretty mild.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:25, Reply)

I go in at lunchtime and just stuff four into my bag.
Plus two or three tins of soup. Then buy some fags from one of the counters and I'm done for the day.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:32, Reply)

but only by yourself!
i am sure noone else does.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:13, Reply)

You've not heard the SexFace story, obviously.

( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:16, Reply)

i don't count
what some bloke from the interweb says, that's not real, ignore that shit!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:21, Reply)

Quite agree Baz
Of all the things I am, I'm not sizeist.

I've been lucky enough to enjoy relationships with people of varying sizes and the only thing that has ever drawn me to someone is a happy face and a winning personality.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:04, Reply)

I must admit I am incredibly fussy.
The last thing I could do is go out with someone daft as a brush, or someone unattractive, and the doris' that are neither of those go out with people deemed cooler than me by society (I say that because they're not cooler than me, society just says they are. In return I say balls to you society, I'm off to watch more Desperate Housewives in my room).
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:11, Reply)

I get fussier as I get older
But only because my days of 'fun' are increasingly limited because of my age.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:13, Reply)